I had a situation years, ago, and just ate the cost. It isn't worth a fight, possible revenge, time, etc. to fight over the cost. You're right, the neighbor is wrong, so what. We read/see the news every night....big stories are fights, shootings, murders,......people often times aren't reasonable. If you've got the money, enjoy life, be thankful and avoid the hassle. I've found when I "get my nose out of joint", I generally lose if I enter a war based on principle. Sorry .......you are right...... but why add to your misery?