Sheryl
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uncledrz said:Yrs and CT, I'm with you, planning to live well into my 90's (although if I go by family history I won't even get close).
CT and Sheryl, I'm with you that DW and I feel free to spend every dime we have, we've given our kids guidance, strength, solid family and spiritual backing and a good education, the money's for us.
CT, one small difference. While we probably won't be spending as much after 85, we still plan to enjoy it just as much if not more -- the sorta "we've pulled one over on you by still being here" idea.
Uncledrz
If I had kids I would probably want to leave them a little something. I would also probably be "helping" them now, as my dad has done with my brother and I. We were both stubbornly independent and resisted him supporting us - I had a serious chip on my shoulder about "making it on my own."
I don't know what my SO's feeling will be about leaving his son and possible future grandchilden something - but generally he's of the mindset that he "launched" his son well with support and education now it's up to him.
As far as spending in the '80's I've assumed less travel budget after 85. I see my parents and others have generally lost the enthusiasm for traveling too much, howver 78 yr old dad and his 80 yr old wife are going to China and Japan for 2 weeks next year...
I assume my travel will no longer involve expensive activities like SCUBA diving, but I would probably enjoy some nice cruises, which are not cheap either.
I also figure on some increased costs, like paying someone else to do lawn work, home repairs and heavy cleaning if I'm still in my own home. Prescription meds? Other health costs??
My Grandmother lived alone until 94, and then only went to assisted living, so I make my plans based on her case. Now at 101 her only expenses are the nursing home, books, and chocolate.
Bottom line is I figure the spending at 80 to be about the same as prior years.
My mantra: All I can really know about my costs for the next 50 years, is that I don't know. When we ER this young, we will need to remain extremely flexible and if the first few years (or any others) provide surprises, adjust accordingly.
As to LOL!'s question - if I still have half my capital at 90:
a) I will regret it
b) it will be time to spend like there's no tomorrow! (literally)
Without major charitable contributions or a very fancy nursing home which (hopefully) will be paid for by LTC anyway, I don't know how a 90 yr. old could spend that much!