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Old 12-13-2019, 06:33 PM   #41
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What are those bonds worth if you sell them today? What is the effective "interest rate" on that presumably larger amount? Perhaps your wife just feels that you should take that available profit and secure the house.
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Old 12-13-2019, 07:01 PM   #42
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What about happy husband-happy life? Shouldn't that result in nothing else to discuss?
I think the general saying is "Happy spouse, happy house."
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Keep the mortgage. You are printing money at that rate.
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Nope, you must be.
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I don’t agree with the overwhelming pay it off crowd. Going into retirement with a mortgage is perfectly OK if your cash flow can cover it and you have a terrific deal there.
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Right now I have a substantial balance in a Vanguard MM paying 1.7%, and that is my liquidity source that could cover 3 years of expenses if everything else somehow stopped. Paying the mortgage off would come out of there, and I don't feel like giving up the flexibility of that highly liquid money and convert it into home equity.
This is a key point - flexibility. Once the loan is paid off, the funds are locked in the house and unavailable any longer unless you refinance or sell.
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Your argument for keeping the mortgage makes sense only if it's an A or B question. IE, you have to sell the bonds to pay the mortgage. But I'm gonna guess it's not that simple, you have other, maybe lower-earning funds, to add to the mix?

I was also an "emotional" pay it down person IRL. Fortunately DH was on the same page. We just put it behind us and used the increased monthly cash from having no payment to increase other savings.

It felt good. I considered it in that "money buys experiences" category even if it wasn't technically the soundest financial decision. If your wife understands this, and your position, and she isn't a twit but is basically saying "i know... but I'd still feel better if..." then I agree with your wife.

Marital decisions do not do well if one goes "well I asked on the internet and most people agree with me..."
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If someone says "Happy husband, happy life" then it is inferred that his wife must be under his thumb...but if someone says "Happy wife, happy life" then most people nod in agreement as if that is wise advice. I don't get that double standard.
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I don’t agree with the overwhelming pay it off crowd. Going into retirement with a mortgage is perfectly OK if your cash flow can cover it and you have a terrific deal there.
Not really since the OP has said that he has money in a Vanguard MM fund earning 1.7% that would be used to pay off the mortgage. So the more relevant comparison is the 2.625% that he is paying in mortgage interest and the 1.7% he is earning on the Vanguard MM fund. So with a $140k mortgage he would be ahead abotu $1,200+ in the first year... enough for a nice dinner a month with his DW.

The 4.6% bond portfolio return is irrelevant because that would be kept if he keeps the mortgage or pays off the mortgage.

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I appreciate the humor that other people have brought to the discussion; I had hoped that the title of the thread might create the space for that.

... Right now I have a substantial balance in a Vanguard MM paying 1.7%, and that is my liquidity source that could cover 3 years of expenses if everything else somehow stopped. Paying the mortgage off would come out of there, and I don't feel like giving up the flexibility of that highly liquid money and convert it into home equity.
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Yes, I understand that. But I also understand why he doesn't want that Vanguard MM money locked in his house equity.
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I get that but if he keeps the mortgage then that increase in home equity is going to happen either way. If liquidity is a huge concern he could get a HELOC after he pays off the mortgage.
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If someone says "Happy husband, happy life" then it is inferred that his wife must be under his thumb...but if someone says "Happy wife, happy life" then most people nod in agreement as if that is wise advice. I don't get that double standard.

+1 I don't like sayings like this because they reinforce stereotypes.


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I get that but if he keeps the mortgage then that increase in home equity is going to happen either way. If liquidity is a huge concern he could get a HELOC after he pays off the mortgage.
Ummm - he already has an excellent HELOC

He could always choose to pay down part of it.
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^^^ You seem to be totally ignoring the $1,200/year of savings.
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We had a similar discussion, with a 2.75% mortgage. In our case, keeping the mortgage allowed us to use the cash to live on, keeping our MAGI under the ACA threshold, saving us beaucoup $ in medical insurance premiums. Also, saved us income tax money for a few years.
Alas, this will be the last year, as the after tax money is getting a little thin. Next year we'll bite the bullet and start pulling from IRAs, but we got 4 years out of it.
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+1.
We are in the process of obtaining a 30 year mortgage. Because we can (cash flow), and for us, it makes perfect sense. Fairly certain we'll both be happily composting long before that "death pledge" is paid off.
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In a low interest rate environment, holding a mortgage that is offset by cashflow doesn't seem like a universally bad idea.
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