Andre1969 said:
I wonder if one reason that gays might go where "traditional" families may fear to tread is the school system? ...I don't have kids, so the school system is usually the last thing I think of. However, it can affect even childless people, as property taxes usually foot most of the school costs. With inefficient school systems, they often have to raise the property taxes to raise more money to inefficiently use up!
even though florida totally bans gay adoption, 16 states are (quick web search 2004 figure) actively seeking to ban gay adoption and only 9 states openly allow gay adoption--never mind that we still actually have the parts to make our own--even though the largest portion of my tax bill goes to the school board to pay for the children of people who vote to keep me from enjoying the same rights they have, speaking for the gay population, we do believe in an educated society and we do prefer living within the boundries of a good school system, if only for resale's sake.
i would further add something my ol'man once told me and i think rings always true: you can get a great education at a state school or a crappy one at ivy league. as to the resources of schools, our county divides the money fairly. schools are regionalized so one neighborhood does not have more tax money than another. inequity does exist where communities pour local resources into a system beyond taxes collected. so a cookie drive will bring in more money in a wealthier area. also, volunteer non-working mom's improve individual schools. but even in lower income areas, given some measure of organization, it would seem the mothers could unite where maybe one does day care for the group while another is freed up to volunteer in the school. it's just a matter of building community. not too difficult if you want it. involvement of the student and the parent, more than money, determines the quality of education.
in the x-crack neighborhood i helped pioneer, where on the site of the old drug rehab center now rises loft townhomes (two remaining unsold & selling for over a half mil each), the elementary school just two blocks from my house is an international studies magnet. a mostly minority "a" school. we tore down the old one, built a brand new one, and it is my neighbors (40% gay) who pushed for the development of the school and who paid to put in a playground for the school and lighting for their ballfields.
turns out though, now that we've so successfully redeveloped and increased prices on 2/1's from $60k to $400k that young families can no longer afford to move here with their children and so our school goes underpopulated. now that the re-redevelopment is underway and the 2/1's are being replaced with million dollar 4/4's, i would imagine those kids will be going to private school.
oh well, at least we got a nice playground and a ballfield for our gay softball league out of it.