Brett_Cameron
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
LOL!: All people (parents and children) are different for some it is easier than others.
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I can identify with that and also admit to the occasional thought that I wish I had chosen the porsche...I nicknamed my two oldest kids: Porsche & Mercedes. I suspect I could have made the bank note on those two cars for what we paid to put them in daycare.
Kids probably shouldn't be cared for by the lowest bidder. Maybe you're paying for quality.
I nicknamed my two oldest kids: Porsche & Mercedes. I suspect I could have made the bank note on those two cars for what we paid to put them in daycare.
Montessori seems like good stuff. But the attention paid by the caregivers and the parents matters more than any curriculum.This center turns into a Montessori pre-school as she gets a little older. I think that it will be beneficial to have the people there making the effort to try and teach her, rather than just "baby sitting".
It probably costs about $300/month more than the lowest cost center in our area.
Like most blog things, this is just opinion, not fact. Some things, like steep mountain snow boarding, playing tennis well, riding English, playing the violin or piano and foreign language are learned differently and better from a young age then when you are older and are different neurologically and also have less time to devote to it. He is wrong that instructors for riding and golf and violin etc. have recently sprung up to service this clientele- these teachers have always been around, for hundreds of years, and if they are well chosen you get skilled instruction for your money.
I am not about to argue that these things are worth the money for a money constrained family, but they do make differences that become part of the child's lifetime experience. These things are not stupid expenditures, any more than newer well maintained cars are stupid expenditures. They are also not necessities, and a subtext to many ER sites is that only necessities are worthy expenditures.
I, too, found the Ivy League preschool blog post to be compelling. I used to think that one of the critical things my middle class parents gave me by sending me to private school and showing horses and whatnot was a comfort level in talking to people wealthier than me, as well as the experiences I had working with (as a teen) people who were poorer than me. I find that being comfortable in both environments has been an enormous part of my work-life success to date.
However, my husband, who did not have these advantages, is also comfortable in both environments, albeit to a slightly lesser degree with wealthier people than I might be.
Those interested in grammar might want to compare the alternatives:... so that if she wants to quit (or if one of you loses their job) then the financial obligations don't lead you into the two-income trap.
I never did any of that high falutin' stuff. I got used to talking to wealthy people by making a career of yelling at financial institution executives. Way more fun than riding a horse.
Those interested in grammar might want to compare the alternatives:
The difficulty with 1. is the failure of number agreement between "one" and "their". The difficulty with 2. is that one of those referred to is surely not a "he", so "his" sounds wrong. The difficulty with 3. is the vagueness about what job or whose job is lost (the job that was had by the one that lost it?).
- "if one of you loses their job"
- "if one of you loses his job"
- "if one of you loses a job"
Those interested in grammar might want to compare the alternatives:.....
<raises hand>Raise your hand if you think you've never made a grammatical error in an impromptu post to a message board.
A claim of perfection is implicitly imperfect.<raises hand>
Like most blog things, this is just opinion, not fact. Some things, like steep mountain snow boarding, playing tennis well, riding English, playing the violin or piano and foreign language are learned differently and better from a young age then when you are older and are different neurologically and also have less time to devote to it. He is wrong that instructors for riding and golf and violin etc. have recently sprung up to service this clientele- these teachers have always been around, for hundreds of years, and if they are well chosen you get skilled instruction for your money.
<raises hand>
(And please note that I didn't imply the post that I commented on was erroneous.)
It was perhaps off topic, but it did point out a very interesting grammar question. And interest is always welcome.Really--pointing out two other ways to word a sentence (that is not at all pertinent to the thread topic) doesn't imply the original wording was erroneous? Then why point them out?
No, it doesn't imply that the original wording was any more erroneous than the others I listed, because for each of the 3 wordings I listed, I gave a reason that made it problematic. Why point all three out? I just find it interesting that in such cases, English gives us no perfect choice. It's a defect of the language. But of course, you don't have to be interested. I'm interested, because I'm a grammarian.Really--pointing out two other ways to word a sentence (that is not at all pertinent to the thread topic) doesn't imply the original wording was erroneous? Then why point them out?
Concur. I recently signed my 4 year-old up for the fancy expensive swim school after years of on-and-off mediocre (and cheap) swim instruction. I'm paying twice as much as the local YMCA but my son made faster progress in a month than I ever could have imagined. Sometimes you really do get what you pay for.