I'm going to try to say this without using words & acronyms like "silly", "absurd", and "OMG!!!" REWahoo already knows how I feel about the challenge of not substituting emoticons for my vocabulary...
Well put Chinaco. A mortgage in retirement is risky.
I think we all agree that a mortgage involves more risk than no mortgage, but from a financial perspective it's possible to be judged as an acceptable degree of risk. At the same time it can be unacceptable from an emotional perspective.
People tend to think that any decision made on the basis of emotion is a bad idea. However I'm not using that word in a pejorative sense but rather its literal one-- if people won't do something because they don't (or can't) feel good about it then they probably shouldn't do it. We could also call it "ethics" or "morals" or simply "standards". But while all of those are different for different people, they can all be above some minimum degree of "right". After that minimum is met then we start getting into "holier than thou" territory.
There's nothing wrong with deciding not to carry a mortgage because it interferes with sleep. There is, however, a problem with extending that decision to the sweeping generalization of "all mortgages in retirement are bad". A decision made on the basis of your emotions may be the right decision for you, but judging
my decision on the basis of
your emotions is not right.
I don't want to be unkind but I suspect the reason so many think a mortgage is a good idea in retirement is because it allows them to buy things they don't really have the money for.
Yes, that seems unkind. It's possible that people are making the decision to take risks with money that they don't perceive a need for (so they wouldn't mind losing it) in order to "win" or to "enjoy themselves". It's not necessarily because they don't have enough money or because they're fueled by consumer lust or because they're in denial over the slow failure of their ER plans. It's because they enjoy assessing risk and making money. Simple as that. UncleMick would call it "testosterone poisoning". On Wall Street it's "keeping score".
My spouse and I are not spending any more nor any less money with a mortgage. We don't say "Well, thank goodness we have a mortgage so that we can afford that!!" I'd agree, however, that having assets tied up in either real estate or in mortgage payments reduces the amount of discretionary cash to be used for other impulsive spending.
Your next thought might be "Well, if you truly don't need it then you wouldn't mind giving it to charity." That's not correct. I think I'd like to [-]play with it[/-] compound it for a while before I give it away, and I think that I can do a better job of compounding it than the charity can do. (The Buffett Attitude.) The other issue is that I have yet to find a charity that really seems worthy of my money... not just from a mission perspective but also of not getting enough funds yet. I've done quite a bit of research on the subject over the last few years, and I've found a few organizations worth a little money, but I have no compelling reason to give it all away yet-- so I don't mind playing with it until something compelling comes along.