I paid my way through university thanks to a very will paying summer job on the railway. But tuition has skyrocketed since the early/mid seventies and well paying summer union jobs with scads of overtime are much more scarce.
We were happy to pay for both our children's post secondary education. Our aim was to have them graduate with zero debt.
Son is returning to graduate school next month. He has been working for a few years and has savings. We have told him that we are more than happy to assist him financially. Why not? He simply has to ask.
This is what we did for our daughters.
I paid for my own college but that was in the 70's when you could afford to do so with a summer job and a part time job during the school year for walking around money. That is not realistic these days.
My daughters had skin in the game by working summers and contributing to most of their own walking around money. My older daughter was a Resident Assistant in her dorm which helped her have more money during the school year.
My older daughter worked on a masters while employed as a teacher and her school district paid for some of her tuition, she borrowed money for the rest. I paid her loans off when she had children of her own.
My younger daughter attended a fully funded PhD program but we helped her with spending money for 7 years or more with that. She graduated from that program with no debt.
Education is a core value for our family and funding the kids education was an investment in our family. We are happy that we made that investment and we hope that our daughters continue that tradition with their children.