Ironic that you'd use the word "axiom", where truth is assumed without being proven (maybe because it can't be proven).HaHa said:A bedrock axiom of psychology is that you don't ever change anyone's mind by presenting novel arguments. You persuade by recasting your new information in old clothes, the old clothes that the person you are trying to persuade is already used to wearing.
"When the facts change, I change my mind – what do you do, sir?" - JM Keynes
I've learned to pay attention to that dislocating confusion caused by the "Whoa..." of absorbing new info and adjusting your perception of reality. As for recasting info, I'm not sure how that works. I prefer the approach of critical thinking-- spit it out, let people look at it, and let them make up their own minds. If it's worthwhile then it doesn't need to be sold to be appreciated.
Well, for starters I don't have to buy anything from them to learn what they're thinking or to see what they're doing. And if they persuade me to their way of thinking, they don't profit from my change of perspective.HaHa said:In our capitalist economy, almost all or maybe even all information is from an interested party. What makes Bogle or Bernstein more reliable sources of information than the people who wrote the White Paper being discussed?
Another thing that makes them considered to be more reliable is their track records. That's why I trust Bernstein & Bogle more than, for example, Robert Kiyosaki.
Absolutely, and thousands of posts go a long way towards working through that fear.HaHa said:It is just possible that NT is on to something with his mention of fear. Let's wait a few months. If the equity markets continue down we'll se how impervious to fear we all are.
Anyway, this whole retirement thing is about fear. Fear that we won't have enough, fear of cat food, etc. etc. Let's be realistic. Fear of lost sleep, fear of husbands’ or wives’ disapproval and disappointment if things go seriously wrong.
There is a social psych concept called “anchoring”. Basically it means that people set narrow limits around their expectations. Based on recent experience, statements of prominent people or on who knows what. Any discussion of possibilities outside these limits is ignored or attacked.
Then reality comes along and does a lot of limit resetting for folks.
Or that fear can be used to attack other people in retaliation for them pointing out your fears.
When an argument is refuted on its merits, that refutation is well done. When an argument is refuted by attacking the merits of the poster who puts it up, it's an indication that there's nothing in the article that can be attacked...