Never been hungry, never succumbed to credit card debt, but was kind of a late-starter concerning putting $ away for retirement. Somehow, the beauty-of-compounding-interest lesson was not part of my high school or college education.
Once moved to another state for a new job while still owning two houses in a state where real estate was falling.
Parents never invested in stock market, so I'm still trying to educate myself and figure things out. Back in the mid-nineties I did learn one lesson the hard way (investing on margin, doubling my money in a few months, then stubbornly holding on the way down (believing it would go back up) even though the little voice in my head was screaming "This is not YOUR great wisdom, hot shot, this was a fluke!", losing it
all, paying margin calls -
- ack!)
About this time a big balloon payment (sort of) on our house was due. It had become evident that my start-up business required way too much travel to suit our family - and the business was not going to make it anyway - and I needed to get a job.
So we paid the balloon and cinched all spending DOWN. I can remember getting ready to head out on errands and telling the kids to fix themselves a bottle of cold water to bring along, and a sandwich or snack if they wanted it, because we would
not even be buying a dollar soft drink when we were out and about! Fortunately, one of my local clients asked me to come to work with them full-time which I did for the next five years.
Now I look back at the "reserve" we had at that juncture and it was very thin. If something had happened (job loss or injury) to one of us, it could have been big trouble. I would never want to be that marginal again on liquid emergency fund, etc.
The experience was oddly empowering, in that I know I can "cinch it down" if necessary.