Rustic23
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
18 or 22. Why two ages? Well at 18 I went to college and payed all the bills, but returned home during the three months of summer. So simi independent. At 22 entered the AF and self sustained sence.
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I know 25 yrs. later it's ridiculous to think 30k in loans could get you through 6 years of undergrad and grad school, kids today have it much, much harder.
I believe times are tougher. It might be the transfer of wealth to the rich. But getting ahead seems to be much tougher these days than it was 40 years ago.We may have given the kids too much , over compensating for what I didn't have growing up. Or just a different set of life experiences that don't easily apply right now in a traditional sense.
Try to generate the same "aha" moments for your kids if you can.
One of my "aha" moments was working at a gas station in high school. I was evening shift manager supervising 2 or 3 other guys. One of those guys was over fifty years old. I really, really, did not want to become him.