azanon said:JG guessed USFWS in the past, and you're guessing the EPA. I'm glad to see you guys aren't for sure where i work yet, cause i dont want my boss getting called!
Ha knows! (Not sure about the "Whistler")
azanon said:JG guessed USFWS in the past, and you're guessing the EPA. I'm glad to see you guys aren't for sure where i work yet, cause i dont want my boss getting called!
Ha knows! (Not sure about the "Whistler")
azanon said:... don't try to convince me to admire your inability to take care of yourself either (exampled by the fact that you're implying you actually need help). I've saved enough to be unemployeed for a few years myself. If you choose to live a life that's not proactive, don't come whining to me.
Also, the next time you evacuate, maybe consider taking your dad with you. There's no way in the world i would have left my dad behind in there, regardless of what he said. I love him too much.
I hesitated to say this, but I personally believe you were unfair to Austin Explorer.
azanon said:I think he was unfair and judgemental with me, and what i said was, as a result, warranted. I dont take being called self-righteous very kindly, expecially when i did or said nothing to deserve that. Also, he made comments about "how do i sleep at night".
azanon said:Your viewing me of bitter and cold-hearted, at times, is only from the perspective that you maybe find youself in. I believe in a lot of things that might be view as bitter and cold-hearted by some; such as darwinism and natural selection. I'm also an agnostic.
But (trying not to drag religion into this), we try not to consider our money "our own." See the example of my parents and IL's. Own parents have very good paying professional jobs, and also have been very blessed in investments.
If that is the case, doesn't it make more sense to respond on point, by saying that it is unfair to call someone self righteous simply because they chose not to contribute to charities because they think they are doing enough by paying taxes?
azanon said:I was on point, but that response wouldn't have been near as harsh and rude as his original comment. Since i was defending myself, I thought my response, as a baseline, should have been at least as harsh as his.
This is where we disagree.
azanon said:If someone insisted that i pick the one thing that has made me successful in life, i'd choose my willingness and courage to stand up for myself; alone if necessary.
azanon said:I see you as very modest and humble, not necessarily blessed. You give the credit of you and your spouses, as well as your parents hard work that paid off, to God when, in fact, it was actually you guys that earned it.
If God was, indeed, the reason why you succeeded and continue to succeed, then how in the world do you explain people like me?
azanon said:I think he was unfair and judgemental with me, and what i said was, as a result, warranted. I dont take being called self-righteous very kindly, expecially when i did or said nothing to deserve that. Also, he made comments about "how do i sleep at night".
As i have said once now, i was simply truthfully answering the original poster's pseduo survey as to how I handle charities. I gave an honest (not self-righteous) answer.
Your viewing me of bitter and cold-hearted, at times, is only from the perspective that you maybe find youself in. I believe in a lot of things that might be view as bitter and cold-hearted by some; such as darwinism and natural selection. I'm also an agnostic.
.......
I saw last night on TV the estimate of all personal (non-government) donations for hurricane relief was approximately 750million dollars. There are aprroximately 200-300 million people in the US. Do the math.
.......
I'm really not bitter though Martha, i'm just very systematic in the way i go about things. I'm an INTJ too, so that might explain some of it. Really, like so many of us, i never seem to have enough money to do all the things I want to do. I feel like i have many weeks in which i'm really having to skimp by to get everything paid for. I almost have to chuckle at the thought or notion that i'm actually doing so well, that i can throw down serious money towards hurricane katrinia (over and above the amount i give indirectly via federal and state governments).
azanon said:... don't try to convince me to admire your inability to take care of yourself either (exampled by the fact that you're implying you actually need help). I've saved enough to be unemployeed for a few years myself. If you choose to live a life that's not proactive, don't come whining to me.
azanon said:Also, the next time you evacuate, maybe consider taking your dad with you. There's no way in the world i would have left my dad behind in there, regardless of what he said. I love him too much.
Welcome to the board, Becca!becca said:I'm now the person on the block who collects from the neighbors, instead of contributing money to fund a senior citizens monthly luncheon at our church, I work at the luncheon cooking, serving cleaning up - also Habitat for Humunity once or twice a week plus many volunteer opportunties throughout the church.
Martha said:This is where we disagree.
azanon said:If someone insisted that i pick the one thing that has made me successful in life, i'd choose my willingness and courage to stand up for myself; alone if necessary.
Nords said:Welcome to the board, Becca!
Can you tell me more about what you do at your local chapter of Habitat for Humanity? How did you get involved and what did you do on your first day?
Caroline said:Best of luck to you and all of those you care about,
Caroline
I have the schedule of the local chapter, but I'm wondering what a new volunteer is assigned to do.becca said:Sorry Nords, I don't know how to do this quote thing - but to answer your question about Habitat --
We orginally got involved through our church which had banded together with other local churches to build a house. You should be able to contact your local Habitat chapter if you would like to volunteer. You should be able to locate a local chapter by doing a search on the internet. They usually have opportunities to work both during the week or weekend - whatever suits your schedule and you can work one day a week, month or whatever. Our son has also gotten involved through his college chapter which is planning a spring break trip to LA/MISS to rebuild from Katrina - and his college is giving participants elective credits for this!
Nords said:What exactly did you do on your first day? Haul trash, fill water cups, fetch tools? Or did you tape drywall? Were you assigned to follow around a more experienced volunteer or Habitat staff member? Or were you working independently?