Midpack
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Not sure where this thread will go, but I was thinking about how drastically my plans have changed over the past 20 years.
20+ years ago, my plan was to have as much money as possible, to move to Mystic CT, to volunteer at Mystic Seaport Museum and sail our own boat in the area as often as possible. And that was the plan for many years, thought about it often and visited every year in anticipation.
Fast forward to now.
By the time I retired I'd come to the realization that 'the most important things in life aren't things' and I no longer hoped to pile up as much money as possible with such almost single-mindedness. Along the same lines, we decided Mystic was unnecessarily expensive (nice place to visit...), volunteering at MSM wasn't as appealing (all the folks I knew and admired there have moved on or passed), and owning our own boat was also an extravagance and more physically demanding at my age than I planned on (even more so for DW sadly).
Not sad, life happens and it's not what we want anymore - but it seemed like a very firm plan for so many years. Just reflecting yesterday on dramatically plans can change voluntarily...
20+ years ago, my plan was to have as much money as possible, to move to Mystic CT, to volunteer at Mystic Seaport Museum and sail our own boat in the area as often as possible. And that was the plan for many years, thought about it often and visited every year in anticipation.
Fast forward to now.
By the time I retired I'd come to the realization that 'the most important things in life aren't things' and I no longer hoped to pile up as much money as possible with such almost single-mindedness. Along the same lines, we decided Mystic was unnecessarily expensive (nice place to visit...), volunteering at MSM wasn't as appealing (all the folks I knew and admired there have moved on or passed), and owning our own boat was also an extravagance and more physically demanding at my age than I planned on (even more so for DW sadly).
Not sad, life happens and it's not what we want anymore - but it seemed like a very firm plan for so many years. Just reflecting yesterday on dramatically plans can change voluntarily...
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