Thanks all for the great replies and ideas!
As for traveling for a year or two and home schooling, DW and I discussed that when we were thinking of moving to CR last year, but decided against it. Mostly because we thought the CR move could actually be detrimental to the kids growing up in a 24/7 party environment. Basically, we decided it could be an interesting place for us to move to after the kids were out of HS, but not before. The thing is, DW LIKES where we live, loves our house with pool and all that stuff, and is involved with work and friends here, so I just don't see a move happening. That's why I've got to get my act together and get something going that will keep me involved and interested for the next 8 years.
Can you go back into the car biz and hire decent help such that you just manage the business (as an owner/investor)? If you have a competent manager on the lot to manage day to day activities... that should free you up to travel in the summer.
The car biz takes too much capital and involves too much liability risk IMO, so that's non an option. It is, unfortunately, pretty much all I know so that's why I'm struggling.
Can you coach youth sports? Do you like kids? Do your kids play sports? Do your kids like you?
DW says I'm not patient enough, and she's right. I've tried. It didn't go well. I coached my kids Y basketball team last year and had a few too many Bobby Knight type moments.
Do you have enough money? Yes or no?
Yes, according to the SWR rules I do, but the first year was pretty much a panic year for me trying to get adjusted. I'm getting better dealing with living off the portfolio now. I think the work idea is just a knee-jerk reaction because that's what I'm used to doing. I've got to admit I'm feeling a little strange doing "nothing" all day while DW is working. And the deal is, she is working so she can have plenty of "funny money" that she can spend on whatever. If she quit it would raise the SWR by very little. Plus, she also works to keep her "involved" in what's going on. She was a housewife for 15 years and likes being out talking to grown ups.
Restarting your creative process can be aided by Ernie Zelinski's "Get-A-Life Tree" in his books.*
This is what I think is my major problem. I've lost much of my creativity, and it's been a struggle trying to get it back. All of my focus was on work for so long that I let my creative, fun side slip. Plus, all my friends revolved around work, so it's been hard getting back into a friend group. Most everyone is working my age, so that's been a struggle. As someone said, I have not found my new groove yet.
OK, enough whining. I'm out to do some cooking for our neighboorhood party. Thanks again for the ideas and input! Keep 'em coming!