We still live in a huge empty nest. Yes, there's emotional attachment. We're near the kids, which is nice, and it's quite convenient when they visit. But it's just too big... 4.5K ft2 on 2.2 acres, with 2 detached structures, plus a pool and a pond. We spend $25K/yr on property tax, insurance, maintenance, and utilities. There are 4 HVAC units and 5 full baths. Plus, there's always some $10-20K improvement on the backlog. Right now, we're young enough to keep up with most routine maintenance, cleaning, and some repairs/improvements. But we are definitely looking to downsize at some point. We can reduce expenses by $10-15K/yr, add several hundred $K to the nestegg, and cut back the labor-intensive upkeep.
Problem is: We're not willing to go back to subdivision-style living. Our downsize specs are extremely specific and thus not something we're going to stumble upon casually. We'd like 2 bedrooms, 2 full baths, a large professionally-equipped kitchen, one very large open living/dining area, a small office, utility room, and air-conditioned space for my woodworking shop. We don't want a lot of acreage, but we like separation, trees, decks, waterfront, a view... something unique that gets us outdoors. And we'd like to stay in Texas near the kids.
Anyway, it sounds like we fit the profile described in the ML piece. We'll likely stay put for another 5-7 years, which is roughly how long I think it will take to find a downsize option that DW and I both agree on, plus get the current place in shape to sell.