No, I think you need to travel more. But being afraid is not too bad an idea. Listen to what people are saying here, a lot of good advice from people who have been there.
My in-laws live in a 3rd world country, I have spent quite a bit of time there too over the years. They always keep some cash on hand because if they have a fire in the house, the fire truck will come, but if they don't pay them, they will just let the house burn. Same with ambulance. The police? If you don't pay them, they won't do anything for you. Even if you do pay, they probably won't do anything.
Hit and run drivers? It is the rule rather than the exception. Get hit by a car, the driver will speed off, often over you, and passers by will rush to you. Not to your aid but to rob you. Even if a policeman sees it happen he will do nothing. No police protection remember?
If you do go to the police better have money, a lot or they will do nothing. Even if you give them money they will probably do nothing.
You cannot park your car or moto outside without paying someone to look after it. If you don't have big bars on all your home windows, and steel doors and good locks, you will get robbed. Some friends (even in a gated community) have gotten robbed a number of times.
Don't talk on your cell phone on a busy street, it will be snatched, if you are a woman expect to have your bag snatched at night, even if you are careful. Yes, my wife's friends have had it happen to them, multiple times.
No medical malpractice. You go to a doctor and take your chances. After he gets your money (yes he gets it up front), he may or may not care what happens to you, or even have any qualifications whatsoever. If you die, nobody will care.
My wife, when she first came to the U.S. was also upset by all of the laws and rules and regulations. Had to study the traffic laws, take a written test, and then a driving test. Hey, in her own country you just paid the man a couple of hundred dollars, no tests at all. Why all the fuss here?
Now, years later she understands and loves the driving here. Drivers actually follow the laws and the traffic moves. In her country, even with far fewer cars, usually there is gridlock in the intersection with nobody moving at all. When we had a minor traffic accident here she saw me and the other driver exchange insurance info, and then drive off. In her country she said there would likely have been a fight. We keep our cars parked outside here all the time. She is not afraid to be walking here in the city at night.
We love to travel, and want to live part time in her country (our last trip was 3 months there), but you have to be aware of your surroundings.
We would all like to have fewer restrictions on what we can do. But IMHO your comments about fewer laws are incredibly naive.