audreyh1
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ON BACKING:
One of the main benefits of me doing all the motorhome driving, is that my husband directs the backing. He's extremely good at it. Besides checking all clearances thoroughly, he makes it so easy for me - he basically turns his hands to show me exactly how much to turn the wheel left or right - I don't even have to think! Obviously he can clearly visualize me driving and give me expert direction.
Of course, if I a) can't see him or b ) have a concern, I stop backing until I can see him again or we radio to resolve the issue. No sense in taking any risks.
I am so grateful for his skill. I often watch wives hop out to help their husbands back into a site, and usually they just watch one side of the coach and sort of helplessly flail their hands about while hubby attempts to interpret. Maybe I don't understand the system, but it certainly doesn't look clear to me.
Stereotyping here - but gosh I've just seen this so often and been so grateful I wasn't getting the confusing direction! And I'd rather back than give backing direction - but I won't allow anyone other than DH to direct me.
On backing trailers - completely different beast and much harder (anti-intuitive) than backing a motorhome. Fortunately, when we bought our Casita (trailer), I discovered that even though DH hates to drive, he was an expert at backing trailers, from years of boating with his Dad as a teenager. It was a year before I was brave enough to try backing the Casita myself. And then it still took a while to "get it" even though I had an expert training me. Finally, I figured out that I could always see one of the trailer wheels from side view mirror, and I learned how to get that trailer wheel to go where I wanted it to. Got way easier after that.
Audrey
One of the main benefits of me doing all the motorhome driving, is that my husband directs the backing. He's extremely good at it. Besides checking all clearances thoroughly, he makes it so easy for me - he basically turns his hands to show me exactly how much to turn the wheel left or right - I don't even have to think! Obviously he can clearly visualize me driving and give me expert direction.
Of course, if I a) can't see him or b ) have a concern, I stop backing until I can see him again or we radio to resolve the issue. No sense in taking any risks.
I am so grateful for his skill. I often watch wives hop out to help their husbands back into a site, and usually they just watch one side of the coach and sort of helplessly flail their hands about while hubby attempts to interpret. Maybe I don't understand the system, but it certainly doesn't look clear to me.
Stereotyping here - but gosh I've just seen this so often and been so grateful I wasn't getting the confusing direction! And I'd rather back than give backing direction - but I won't allow anyone other than DH to direct me.
On backing trailers - completely different beast and much harder (anti-intuitive) than backing a motorhome. Fortunately, when we bought our Casita (trailer), I discovered that even though DH hates to drive, he was an expert at backing trailers, from years of boating with his Dad as a teenager. It was a year before I was brave enough to try backing the Casita myself. And then it still took a while to "get it" even though I had an expert training me. Finally, I figured out that I could always see one of the trailer wheels from side view mirror, and I learned how to get that trailer wheel to go where I wanted it to. Got way easier after that.
Audrey