chief04010
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I work because someone pays me to do so, when some starts paying me for not working (AKA Retirement,) you will not believe how quickly I stop.
As for "you go, girl"- I hate that phrase. I am not a girl.
Funny you say that, early in my first supervisor role I had a women upper manager 4 slots up in my chain of command ask me a question about a report that I had no part in compiling, I responded with "I'm not familiar with that report and I believe the girls in the office do that report" well needless to say I received a 30 min impromptu lesson on why my use of "girls" was inappropriate.
Never made that mistake again.
It took 30 minutes? Gee, I think the point that a supervisor calling female professionals "girls" is demeaning could be made in about 30 seconds!
It was an EPIC beating.
perhaps the beatee was a little resistant LOL -
Another point of view.
DW often goes to lunch with the "girls" or shopping or just coffee clutch. All of them are well past sixty a few in their eighties, and they all talk about the next girls day out.
Another point of view.
DW often goes to lunch with the "girls" or shopping or just coffee clutch. All of them are well past sixty a few in their eighties, and they all talk about the next girls day out.
Use of the word girl when referring to grown women shows insensitivity to the plight of women, who have long been discriminated against by institutional/ built in male privilege. How could someone be so politically incorrect to use such a term?
I don't think men always intend it to be derogatory, although I understand that's how it can sound. Intent matters. For some, the word conveys affection (e.g., I prefer to say "girlfriend," rather than "partner," which sounds antiseptic to me).
I would never call the women I work with girls, though. Or if I did, I'd have to duck fast.
Part of the reason I'm trying so hard to FIRE. Everyone's so damn touchy.
I know! Ask some people not to call others by a belittling term at work, and you'd think by their reaction that you were vastly imposing on them.
In most cases, I have found people that feel belittled are largely insecure. Not always, but largely. Now, I don't want to offend any of the "confident challenged", lord knows.
In most cases, I have found people that feel belittled are largely insecure. Not always, but largely. Now, I don't want to offend any of the "confident challenged", lord knows.
Use of the word girl when referring to grown women shows insensitivity to the plight of women, who have long been discriminated against by institutional/ built in male privilege. How could someone be so politically incorrect to use such a term?
Another thing I have found, is debating with an ideologue is very similar to attempting rational conversation with the irrational.
In most cases, I have found people that feel belittled are largely insecure.
Joe, we can confidently surmise, was a highly insecure guy. Although I probably should have said "mentor" instead of trying to be funny. Teasing a grouch at work isn't as good an idea as doing it on the internet.
Definitely sounds like he was "confidence challenged". That ailment is an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY one!