flyfishnevada
Full time employment: Posting here.
I have seen several members talk about being retired while there spouse continues to w*rk. I am in a similar situation. My SW w*rks part time from home. We now joke that since I am retired, she automatically became semi-retired rather than part-time. I have taken on several household duties. I actually make the bed most days. I do the grocery shopping and cook dinner fro the family. All things she did when I was w*rking. I have managed to start some projects around the house and actually finish some of them.
Still, most weekdays she is in her office, w*rking away for for half the day while I cruise forums and blog, watch Fox News, go fishing, smoke cigars, play guitar, sit on my front porch and chase kids off my lawn and complain about the government, etc. (just kidding, I don't have a lawn). she seems to be fine with it and has said as much. She knows she had it good for a lot of years while I commuted and hour to a j*b I had grown to loathe. Not that her part-time w*rk is all wine and roses, but it was part-time and at home.
Now people ask her if I am driving her crazy. She tells them she loves having me around. The kids bug me instead of interrupting her in the office. She says I am much happier and less grumpy. The household stuff I have taken on makes her life much easier. So many people predicted she would hate having me around. So far anyway, nothing could be further from the truth. However, sometimes it makes me feel a little guilty that I get to have all the fun and she has to w*rk.
Not really looking for advice. Just wondering how this all worked out for others whose spouse kept working. How about just suddenly spending all day together? Any problems? Slice of heaven or little bit of hell?
Still, most weekdays she is in her office, w*rking away for for half the day while I cruise forums and blog, watch Fox News, go fishing, smoke cigars, play guitar, sit on my front porch and chase kids off my lawn and complain about the government, etc. (just kidding, I don't have a lawn). she seems to be fine with it and has said as much. She knows she had it good for a lot of years while I commuted and hour to a j*b I had grown to loathe. Not that her part-time w*rk is all wine and roses, but it was part-time and at home.
Now people ask her if I am driving her crazy. She tells them she loves having me around. The kids bug me instead of interrupting her in the office. She says I am much happier and less grumpy. The household stuff I have taken on makes her life much easier. So many people predicted she would hate having me around. So far anyway, nothing could be further from the truth. However, sometimes it makes me feel a little guilty that I get to have all the fun and she has to w*rk.
Not really looking for advice. Just wondering how this all worked out for others whose spouse kept working. How about just suddenly spending all day together? Any problems? Slice of heaven or little bit of hell?