Originally Posted by W2R
He owns his home, and he hasn't decided, which makes this entire process impossibly perplexing for me at the moment. First he'll say probably here, then he'll say probably Springfield, then he'll say that if I move near to him he'll stay in his house here forever, then he'll say that New Orleans is on a downwards spiral and we need to get out. All of this contradictory input is why I probably seem indecisive - - I just don't have sufficient information at the moment upon which to base any decision. I'll just have to be patient for a while.
I understand. You aren't indecisive, he is.
I live about 3 miles from my GF, mostly ok to good neighborhoods between us so I feel ok walking. There is bus service, but it is not a busy route. She works, so I usually see her only on weekends. If /when she would retire, it would be nice to go out for a good coffee. Her neighborhood has a nice Starbucks with fireplace and outdoor seating, but compared to the small coffee houses in my neighborhood the coffee stinks. 3 miles is too far to just get together say for coffee if we only have an hour or so, likely 1/2 mile or less would be better for that. Not going to happen though, and perhaps for the best.