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Last week, I spoke to a former co-worker who retired last year at age 55. He has adjusted to retirement extraordinarily well, alternating between an motor home in Florida, and property in New England. Even though he no longer drives or travels in his motor home (which seems like a waste to me), he prefers to live in it rather than something fixed and cheaper because he “likes the comings and goings of the nomadic lifestyle.”
Anyhow, his long-term significant other is twelve years his junior. I get the sense that they will not be together for much longer. Why? Simply because he has free time to pursue other interests, travel and (cough, cough) “friends,” and she is still twenty years away from any form of retirement. The most she can spare in any given year in Florida is a couple of weeks.
This imminent breakup got me wondering. Are there any other unforeseen implications of retiring ten, twenty, or thirty years ahead of your peers? Does your social circle change? Do you end up hanging around with your parents’ generation? Has anyone else noted subtle resentment from similarly aged friends who will still be tied to a job for decades, maybe forever?
Anyhow, his long-term significant other is twelve years his junior. I get the sense that they will not be together for much longer. Why? Simply because he has free time to pursue other interests, travel and (cough, cough) “friends,” and she is still twenty years away from any form of retirement. The most she can spare in any given year in Florida is a couple of weeks.
This imminent breakup got me wondering. Are there any other unforeseen implications of retiring ten, twenty, or thirty years ahead of your peers? Does your social circle change? Do you end up hanging around with your parents’ generation? Has anyone else noted subtle resentment from similarly aged friends who will still be tied to a job for decades, maybe forever?