I quoted your original post only to remind you what you did and why you did it. Everything else just happened.I'm DONE!!!!
I just handed in my two weeks notice to my V.P. - April 30th will be my last day of w**k! I'm lighting my torch, and heading to the farm.
The last year has been brutal. But I have (had?) a good team of great people, and it helped to know that I was able to make things at least tolerable for them by serving as the B.S. filter. The only positive part of this last year is that it eliminated any doubt as to whether it was time to retire .
No OMY syndrome here!!!!!
YIPPEEE!!!!!!
The BOD is sending this guy down because they realize the excrement is hitting the rotating blade. Also, they probably know or discussed who has a positive relationship with you which means your visitor wasn't picked at random or just happens to be coming to town.
The plan is probably to first see if you can be conviced to stay and bring most of the fleeing chickens back to the roost. Before the meeting, think about anything that might change your mind about retiring. Also, be aware that YOU are viewed as responsible for this debacle. The most likely result is that a transition period would be planned to rearrange their technical personnel so that you and the "disloyal" engineers can be made expendable ASAP. Once you become expendable, you will be gone. It's not likely you or anyone else will be told of this part of the plan. I've seen it done.
If you won't stay, you'll probably be asked to convince people to stay or transition more smoothly. Their fate is also sealed IMHO when the department is reconfigured. Let your conscience be your guide.