I just finished listening to the audio book of "What should I do with my life" I listened to it on my way to and from work! I also listened to one of Anthony Robbin's "Power Talk" and Harold Kushner's Living a Life That Matters."
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...103-2452531-5655054?v=glance&s=books&n=507846
I can recommed them all. They may look like very different books but they all are similar in that in one way or another they said:
We are driven by one of two emotions love or fear.
Tony Robbins approach is to try and make what we fear so painful to us that we have the strength and courage to do what we love.
The people in Po Bronson's book one way or another saw that their actions were motivated by fear, that they were being hurt by it and needed to change their lives.
Rabbi Kushner (who wrote a N.Y. Times best seller "When bad things happen to good people" ) help us to see that what we fear is dying without living and learning the life we know we should.
His point on fear is that those who go through life avoiding pain and fear never really experience life or feel anything.
He has some very good insights.
A couple are:
When we die one of the areas where we will be judged will be in how much or little we have taken advantages of the pleasures God has provided us. Think about it.
Another is that we keep looking for that major turning point or mirical in our life that will change it and put us on the path to our happiness. But, there is not real major turning point (I think the Po Bronson book might have distorted the picture here a bit - what do you think?) Kushner tells the story of the Bible story of the Isrealites fleeing the Egiptians - that God parted the Red Sea just in time for the Isrealites to escape from their captors. But as the Bible says, two days later they were complaining about being in the desert, the heat etc. So, God said to himslef - It is not best to give these people one major miracle every lifetime - miricales must be give on a daily basis - so God gave the Isrealites food every moring - the manna from heaven - while they were in the desert. Kushners' conclusion we must make miracles happen daily and that life is its own reward.