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I just look at them with one eye...I know but sometimes these issues are like car wrecks . You just can't look away and next thing you are totally involved !
I just look at them with one eye...I know but sometimes these issues are like car wrecks . You just can't look away and next thing you are totally involved !
I don't spend any time on politics and that is a big timesaver. I don't argue about issues on the internet and that also keeps me sane...
Try this one on for size...You may need another phrase then "I have to". How about "I'm going to enjoy ..." or some such?
That's certainly an excellent one for things you hate.Try this one on for size...
"I don't want to and I don't have to"
Source: Shoebox greeting card given to me by a very good lady friend (also an Engineer where I w*rked) when I resigned.
Or things you feel obligated to do for some strange reason. It is difficult for achievers to learn how to relax. By achievers, I mean the collective group here at the forum. We have all achieved the Holy Grail of the w*rking world...FIRE.That's certainly an excellent one for things you hate.
I am afraid one of these days, what will give me stress is that the gummint will say that because I led an LBYM life and had savings in IRAs and in after-tax accounts, I will have to give up SS to people who are more needy.The only thing that gives me stress is when my DW's parasitic relatives go through yet another self made crisis and try to extort money from her.
You may need another phrase then "I have to". How about "I'm going to enjoy ..." or some such?
What stress's me in retirement?
Anything that requires me to be or do anything with a time or date attached to it.
I just can't stand having to do anything that you need to watch a clock or set an alarm for.
Steve
The only thing that gives me stress is when my DW's parasitic relatives go through yet another self made crisis and try to extort money from her.
Other than that, it is blue skies.
I just seem to have to do something "productive" or I feel dumb and worthless. Must find a way to get over that. Once in awhile I declare a "free" day and just do whatever comes naturally. Sometimes I just clean the coffee maker or some such minor thing and that helps me to feel productive for the day. I guess I can blame my parents for making me too responsible .Or things you feel obligated to do for some strange reason. It is difficult for achievers to learn how to relax. By achievers, I mean the collective group here at the forum. We have all achieved the Holy Grail of the w*rking world...FIRE.
I went through the "I should be doing something" phase for quite a while after I FIREd. I do believe I've finally gotten over that.
Maybe...sort of...intermittently...
I thought that was the very definition of being retired...Once in awhile I declare a "free" day and just do whatever comes naturally.
what will give me stress is that the gummint will say that because I led an LBYM life and had savings in IRAs and in after-tax accounts, I will have to give up SS to people who are more needy.
But, but, but the difference between us is that you are really a "rich" doctor, hence truly do not need SS like I still do as a poor engineer.I am concerned about the same issue. This is one of the things that keeps me from retiring now.
And here I thought all along that "retired" meant you had just found another way to get "tired".I thought that was the very definition of being retired...
retire 1533, of armies, "to retreat," from M.Fr. retirer "to withdraw (something)," from re- "back" + O.Fr. tirer "to draw" (see tirade). Meaning "to withdraw to some place for the sake of seclusion" is recorded from 1538; sense of "leave an occupation" first attested 1648 (implied in retirement). Meaning "to leave company and go to bed" is from 1670. Baseball sense of "to put out" is recorded from 1874. Retiree is attested from 1945.
Surely, I have read about your charity work, and that's a lot more than I have done.Additionally, I owe an expensive condo, mortgage free, and have paid my college tuition... I need SS as much as anyone else
Surely, I have read about your charity work, and that's a lot more than I have done.
The expensive condo is your own business, but hearing that you have paid your college tuition, I am ready to share some SS money with you.
You probably do not read all the threads to know about the recent "storm" regarding college tuition loan forgiveness for [-]ER'ers [/-]low income people.
After 5 years of ER. The question is: Am I fully taking advantage of ER?
I was sunlight deprived where I w*rked. Right after FIRE, I used to get up very early. I loved watching the sun rise while I had my coffee out on my porch. That phase has passed.It is annoying but I realize the dentist & vet et al do have to have schedules.
I try to keep appointments to 11AM or 1PM if at all possible.
Think I've set alarm 3 times in 6.5 years I've been retired.
Then stop reading them!You don't have to argue about the issues to be stressed out. Sometimes, just reading them will do this to you.
Like Freebird, I really enjoy saying to myself "I don't HAVE to!" Just that thought relieves a lot of stress about many things.