lazygood4nothinbum
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true on the mortality rate of caregivers but i wonder if most of those casualties aren't among elderly spouses. not that it isn't stressful for anyone, especially hard for those emotionally, closely attached, and anyone with kids or other pre-existing burdens. i'll never forget one amazingly brave lady in the alzheimer's forum who took care of her alzheimer's uncle while raising two autistic kids, all without a whole lot of money. she was amazing.
i considered bringing mom into my house or moving into hers for the last few years but if i had to watch her die on a 24/7 basis i surely would have gotten to my grave before she got to hers. i'm the kind of guy who has to laugh through the pain; i wasn't built for this much sadness.
i considered bringing mom into my house or moving into hers for the last few years but if i had to watch her die on a 24/7 basis i surely would have gotten to my grave before she got to hers. i'm the kind of guy who has to laugh through the pain; i wasn't built for this much sadness.