SumDay
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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We've been married almost 40 years, and DH still refuses to balance HIS checking account. Early on, he also resented me controlling the purse strings. I sat him down on several occasions and showed him all the things that are involved with purse strings: preparing taxes, contributing to our 401(k)'s, selecting your investments, remembering to pay property taxes annually, gift giving, etc. He now actually appreciates that I do EVERYTHING with our finances. He gets a mutually agreed upon dollar amount every month, and if he wants to waste any of it on overdraft fees, that's his prerogative. He also has a credit card in his name only and that gets paid out of his funds.
He just doesn't care like I do and after I finally accepted that, things were much easier. Good luck to you. Lots of good advice in your many answers.
He just doesn't care like I do and after I finally accepted that, things were much easier. Good luck to you. Lots of good advice in your many answers.