spideyrdpd
Recycles dryer sheets
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- Jun 12, 2006
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After losing the house maybe she would be more receptive to some help ?
Gosh, they're just trying to have themselves a Merry Christmas and a Happy Hallowe'en...Sheryl said:but the place was filled with people loading up on cheap decorative knick-nacks and junk food....
PBS children's program with lyrics "don't bring it home home home Don't bring it home, the garage is full and the closets are bursting at their seams...."
Big Bird and Barney the Purple Dinosaur are on their way over to have a word with you...ladelfina said:Damn commies!
TromboneAl said:Concerning people who don't move their money even when they realize they are paying high and unnecessary fees to a financial planner: I think that often they have formed a personal relationship with the planner, and although they don't admit it, they are too embarassed to move their money. Instead they rationalize their choice.
FinanceDude said:That's true to some extent. Keep in mind what I have said all along.............outside of THIS board, and a couple others, most people don't want to deal with learning about their own finances...........they would rather "transfer responsibility" to another party.
Anyone with an some basic education can learn enough to manage things themselves. I am the first one to tell them they don't need me..........even if they want to work with me...........it's a waste of their money and my time.
Andy said:And I think they want us to believe that. If we knew how easy it was, they would be out of a job.
FinanceDude said:Well, you are partially right............it is easy to learn, but MOST people want to "blame others", be it a financial advisor, insurance guy, bank guy, etc................
Texas Proud said:Her response was... well, I would have zero if it wasn't for the guy who came around and pestered me into starting to put money in the system... so, I know it is high fee, but I would have nothing for him... she does plan on moving the money, but has been slow in doing so...
mclesters said:Sheryl,
I meant to tell you that I printed out your little saying when you wrote about your mom and dad in the thread on money influences.
It is taped along with other inspirational words from others on this forum, notably Cute Fuzzy Bunny and Brewer, on the wall nearest my computer at home. I never said thanks, but that is a great little piece of verse!
Sarah
HFWR said:A veritable suppository of wisdom...
shorttimer said:I also have the same situation. The funny thing is that my sibling in the most trouble attributes much of his money problems to luck. While they spend tons of money eating out, buying junk and trading cars every couple of years, he thinks people are lucky to have no mortgage, while many have no mortgage because of not eating out, staying out of stores and driving cheaper cars longer. They have also declared bankruptcy twice, believe it or not. I think there is a mindset that is very difficult to penetrate.