Frugality_of_Apathy
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Thinking about this, I have a general observation.
Same as many others, I have provided for my children. I did not indulge them, but did not leave them wanting either. I have always loved them, and as fas as materialistic things, give them what I think is reasonable within my income and econo-social class. I do not plan for them to return anything. It is my duty as a parent to provide for them, having brought them into this world. I am making plan for my retirement without their help, although when I become weak and invalid, will appreciate their calling or visit when it is possible. I don't think I differ much from people in this forum with children.
Though I do not plan for nor want their help in my old age, just the thought that they would not care about me, should I need help, hurts.
Now, why is it that it is common and OK for adult children to expect inheritance from their well-to-do parents? Do most of them come to the funeral only to hear the lawyer read the will?
They say s**t rolls downhill. I submit to you that in parent/child relationship, the reverse is generally true. But then, it is nothing any of us does not know already, I don't think.
I'd say in this instance downhill would be would be to the younger generations. If one generation raises selfish ungrateful kids what kind of kids do you think are going to be raised in the next generation. And when grand parents get mad that their kids are ungrateful it's the grandchildren who sufferthe most