As a recent college graduate (BS in '08, Master's in '09), I'm often shocked by how much folks think is
needed for college.
The sticker price of college is often nowhere near what students actually need to pay as it includes no aid and assumes they need to pay everything possible. See more on sticker price vs. net cost from NPR's Planet Money:
The Real Price Of College : Planet Money : NPR
Figuring Out The Real Price Of College : Planet Money : NPR
The Price Of College Tuition, In 1 Graphic : Planet Money : NPR
So what the average person pays for college has actually stayed the same over the last 5 years, despite the sticker price rising by ~25%. One can effectively get a good public 4-year education for ~$10,000 out of pocket.
There's no need to save up $100,000 for some private school, when one could shop around and get a better deal at a different private school, or get an equivalent education at a public school.
It's just amazing to me that we get all these news articles about the price of college increasing so much, or people lamenting the $100k in student loans while the articles ignore the reality that the net cost of college hasn't even kept up with inflation, and has decreased in some instances.
Some anecdotal evidence from me
I spent 5 years at a Big 10 university with in-state tuition and never received any significant aid* until I got married before my Senior year. All of a sudden my last 2 years of college became free.
*I got a $500 scholarship here and there, but nothing noteworthy
I left college with ~$15k in debt, or only about $5000 for each year that wasn't "free", and most of that was from my freshman year. I only spent 1 year in a dorm (way more expensive than off-campus housing) and worked 15-20 hours a week during the school year, and 30-40 hrs/week when school was out, which really helped. I know a kid who triple majored and literally paid his way through college while working. He was crazy, but he did it.
It's flabbergasting to me that students don't think they should work while in college, or that their parents don't expect them to. The whole goal of college is to prepare you to be successful in your field (regardless of whether or not you get a degree). A big part of that is finding jobs and improving relevant skills.
Additionally, it's quite easy to get a $10/hr job on a university campus and work 15 hours a week. If a student does that, it's $600/month (with little taxes), which should cover a big chunk of their apartment/utilities bill (if not all of it).
What We're Doing
We are saving $124/month into the Vanguard-managed Utah Education Savings Plan (It's a 529 plan) for our daughter. This will give her ~$25,000 by the time she is ready for college. We think this should be enough for at least 1 year of college a public university, if not more.
Perhaps you feel more should be saved up for your kids, which is completely fine. We just believe that we should only supplement her college, not pay for the whole thing. If she's not fiscally responsible enough to take advantage of $25k, then we've got bigger problems.