BigMoneyJim
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I'm sitting at work today calling MBNA every 2 hours to see if my EFT payment has hit. This is the card that was at $20,000 three years ago, and after that EFT payment hits (anytime within the next 72 hours if past payments are any indication) the balance will be zero.
Nope, not there yet. So I'll check email...my brother got fired. What a buzz kill!
My brother is 21, has no career started, has stalled early in college and doesn't really have an impressive work history. (A few fast food stints being the shining star of his resume.)
The job he just got fired from was a big company which was part of a larger conglomerate. The job was very entry level, but it was this type of position in a large that started my career off, and I thought he had finally found a place to start a career. But as the 90-day probationary period came to an end they fired him.
I realize there are many individual issues beyond the scope of any thread here, and I'm starting to wonder about past A.D.D. diagnoses and such.
But aside from all that I'm really at a loss to offer him advice or even encouragement right now. I look back at my career history and sometimes I feel like I lucked into everything while most of the time I believe I'm a good observer and take advantage of opportunities that happen my way.
My sister's path was a little different. She seems to have focused on portable skills (well, mine are portable, too) and job hunting/interviewing rather than climbing the corporate ladder, but it's working very well for her. At 21 she was just about done with her Bachelor's and had an internship and a lock on a good job after graduation. Since then she's traded salaries up by switching jobs and companies to great success so far.
I guess I'm babbling now. I realize you can't fix other people's lives but I don't know what advice to offer him.
Any tips on how a 21-year old with a high school diploma, a little college and a spotty work history can get the career going would be greatly apperciated. Or if not a "career" then at least (a) reliable stream(s) of income.
Oh, and health insurance. He falls off our mother's health insurance coverage when he turns 22 or 23 (I forget which).
EDIT: I suppose it would be helpful to add that his interests are in PC support and acting/drama. I don't think he believes he can make money acting, but I'm not sure. I'm not sure if his PC skills are marketable, but I was confident that he would pick up the marketable skills quickly in an entry level job. (After his firing, though, I wonder if there are issues with his attention or attitude...I'll check into that.) I got into tech work through climbing the corporate ladder and applied college; my sister got into tech work through college and internship. At this point he doesn't seem to have the motivation to follow in our shoes, and I don't really know how to get into tech work other than that.
Nope, not there yet. So I'll check email...my brother got fired. What a buzz kill!
My brother is 21, has no career started, has stalled early in college and doesn't really have an impressive work history. (A few fast food stints being the shining star of his resume.)
The job he just got fired from was a big company which was part of a larger conglomerate. The job was very entry level, but it was this type of position in a large that started my career off, and I thought he had finally found a place to start a career. But as the 90-day probationary period came to an end they fired him.
I realize there are many individual issues beyond the scope of any thread here, and I'm starting to wonder about past A.D.D. diagnoses and such.
But aside from all that I'm really at a loss to offer him advice or even encouragement right now. I look back at my career history and sometimes I feel like I lucked into everything while most of the time I believe I'm a good observer and take advantage of opportunities that happen my way.
My sister's path was a little different. She seems to have focused on portable skills (well, mine are portable, too) and job hunting/interviewing rather than climbing the corporate ladder, but it's working very well for her. At 21 she was just about done with her Bachelor's and had an internship and a lock on a good job after graduation. Since then she's traded salaries up by switching jobs and companies to great success so far.
I guess I'm babbling now. I realize you can't fix other people's lives but I don't know what advice to offer him.
Any tips on how a 21-year old with a high school diploma, a little college and a spotty work history can get the career going would be greatly apperciated. Or if not a "career" then at least (a) reliable stream(s) of income.
Oh, and health insurance. He falls off our mother's health insurance coverage when he turns 22 or 23 (I forget which).
EDIT: I suppose it would be helpful to add that his interests are in PC support and acting/drama. I don't think he believes he can make money acting, but I'm not sure. I'm not sure if his PC skills are marketable, but I was confident that he would pick up the marketable skills quickly in an entry level job. (After his firing, though, I wonder if there are issues with his attention or attitude...I'll check into that.) I got into tech work through climbing the corporate ladder and applied college; my sister got into tech work through college and internship. At this point he doesn't seem to have the motivation to follow in our shoes, and I don't really know how to get into tech work other than that.