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Old 07-30-2016, 09:49 AM   #1
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spouse relationship after fire

I'm 47, no debt, 1.5mm+ NW, youngest child a freshman in high school. The countdown clock has started to which i'll pivot away from the office job and on to phase 2 of life. that said, my wife is still very engaged in her career and intends to work many more years. she gets a tremendous amount of satisfaction from her job. today, i'm a group manager, sizable income, stock options, country club membership, kids in private school, etc. you get the idea. thus, something of a dilema in that my spouse says she's supportive of walking away but i suspect it might create stress. She 100% supports LBYM by the way. very simple lady herself. regardless, it's something that gives me hesitation in pulling the rip cord a few years from now. I wonder if there are others of you that encountered a similar situation? How has it 'gone' post fire.

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Old 07-30-2016, 10:07 AM   #2
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Welcome to the forum, jtextiger. That's a topic we discuss frequently around here, so you might want to search the archives for older threads. Hewre's one example: When one half is still working

You might want to stop by here to formally introduce yourself.

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Old 07-30-2016, 10:54 AM   #3
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I'm getting close to being retired for 2 years while the DW continues to work. My retirement doesn't appear to bug her in the least...she does appreciate that there are few chores she needs to worry about.

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