photoguy
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Another way to think of the $100k is it maybe the equivalent of 400-500 bucks a month. Is that tradeoff worth it to you (increased obligation to MIL).
Exactly.This is not a gift from the heart. If it were, grandma would be fine with you putting it into the college funds, or paying down the mortgage.
Keep your eyes on the prize.
(In other words, determine whether ER or a more expensive house is your highest priority. Then make sure your decision reflects your highest priority and makes that highest priority a certainty).
I cannot see your argument. No matter what the house value does, if your after tax salary is increasing, the burden of your mortgage loan will be decreasing. You can think of it as hours of work needed to pay one monthly installment.I dislike the inflation argument to justify house investment.
The inflation argument IMO assumes that your income increases at least with the inflation rate or even more and that the house value increases with or above inflation rate.
If not, each $ of debt will still have to be paid off with a $ equal to the same % of salary as today.
Glad to hear it!most importantly, we left Grandma out of the equation
Congratulations, this should all work out very well.As an update, we did decide to build the house. Three positives happened in May, 1) I received a significant raise (15%) at work, 2) I had the opportunity to make an additional $60,000 doing a free lance project this summer and 3) Our townhouse sold for $20K more than we expected... which brings our mortgage under the jumbo conforming (we locked 4.25% on a 30 years fixed). We're still financing 75% (or about $615K).
So far the neighborhood is doing exceptionally well and we can't wait to move in. Seems everyone on our street (we're on a side cul de sak with 14 homes total) has kids. So far my wife has confirmed 25 kids under the age of 8, 18 of which are girls (we have two girls ages 1 and 4).
Builder has raised home prices significantly this spring. Our base model is selling for about 10% more than we signed for. Guessing our home will continue to rise as the development progresses since we're early into the community and the homes going in after us are larger. (fwiw, HOA is already established and dictates rules to builder... unlike most communities where the builder builds and then hands over to HOA - because of this we have a very unique neighborhood... lots of open spaces, amenities, farms, gardens, larger lots, etc... rare for DC suburbs). Still need to watch the desire to 'keep up with the Jones' but that has never been a problem for my wife and I. We're certainly moving into a neighborhood where everyone is doing well for themselves. We chose the location for the community.
We'll have an emergency fund still in the $60,000 range, and 401K just crossed $200K, with our home equity somewhere in the quarter million range.
Adding that all up we're close to equal on the debt to wealth line. We plan to stay in this house until kids are out of college (20 + years)... and don't anticipate ever needing to refinance and don't want to touch HELOC.
Because of the raise in May we didn't need to make any changes to our budget. Conveniently, the higher mortgage payments match the raise received...
Still no regrets, we'll see how that ends up. I'm anticipating this being a good financial move in the long run. Of course we could have chosen a smaller home in another development, but I'm not sure we'd have the same quality of life raising our kids (I'm aware that could be a biased opinion based on my desire to believe this is a good choice). That said, I doubt this home will stay under $1 million for long (sale price was $840K and the same sq footage is going for around $900K now. A few years from now I'm anticipating our mortgage to be half the value of the home. That depends on the market...
(most importantly, we left Grandma out of the equation)