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I´m embarrassed to admit that boredom, bordering in something like mild depression, is, slowily but relentlessly, encroaching on me. I don´t believe too much in therapists, so I resort to you, real ERed peopole for help and advice.
I´m convinced that I am the only one to blame for my apathy, as I lack enough interests and hobbies to fill all the free time. Reading and cycling have proved not to be enough, even in summer.
I live in the countryside in a small village that is sparsely populated, no amenities, and most of the people still work. Including my wife. Add to all this bad transportation (I can´t drive) and you have the whole picture.
I suspect that whatever is to be done in the line of hobbies will have to be indoors, bad weather and short days being the reasons.
Could it be that what I need is a passion/enthusiasm like the one I get with a good film/book/conversation?
I´m counting on you, to help me out. For the moment I haven´t told my wife about this, but she´ll eventually notice it. it´ll upset her and she doesn´t deserve it. She is a darling.
Thanks for reading this post.
I´m convinced that I am the only one to blame for my apathy, as I lack enough interests and hobbies to fill all the free time. Reading and cycling have proved not to be enough, even in summer.
I live in the countryside in a small village that is sparsely populated, no amenities, and most of the people still work. Including my wife. Add to all this bad transportation (I can´t drive) and you have the whole picture.
I suspect that whatever is to be done in the line of hobbies will have to be indoors, bad weather and short days being the reasons.
Could it be that what I need is a passion/enthusiasm like the one I get with a good film/book/conversation?
I´m counting on you, to help me out. For the moment I haven´t told my wife about this, but she´ll eventually notice it. it´ll upset her and she doesn´t deserve it. She is a darling.
Thanks for reading this post.