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01-09-2011, 09:15 PM
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gone traveling
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Originally Posted by bbbamI
One other thing... The doc said the success of RT or surgery was the same at 90% in DH's situation. I like those odds. But I have to tell ya, it sure would have been nice if they could have added another 10%....
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Let modern medicine take care of the 90%- All your friends here on E-R.org will be praying for the other 10%. 
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01-10-2011, 01:42 AM
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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All the best to DH and to you!
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01-10-2011, 04:24 AM
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Thank you for the update bbbamI. Take care.
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01-10-2011, 07:53 AM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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Sounds very positive. You guys should start planning a cruise or something as a goal/reward to look forward to after his treatments are done. 
Keep us all up to date on his progress. I'm sure he will do well.
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01-18-2011, 11:23 AM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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Here’s another update….
A week ago DH had his colonoscopy…the procedure went just fine and as always he enjoyed the drugs they gave him. Unfortunately the doc had to remove three polyps. This doc is the same one that handled his colonoscopy six years ago. At that time, one polyp was removed and the biopsy came out negative for cancer. Even though three polyps were removed this time, the doc didn’t seem concerned but is having them sent to the lab as normal procedure. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a good report.
Earlier today DH had three gold seeds implanted in his prostate. A sonogram was used to locate the prostate, a numbing shot was given and the seeds were put in place. This procedure took about 15 minutes to complete. He will have to take a few antibiotics to ensure an infection does not occur. He’s doing fine now; a little sore, but fine nonetheless.
At this point he is weary of going to the doctor yet realizes he has just begun. But I believe he’ll handle this well as he is an ‘it is what it is’ kind of guy. As a matter of fact, he’s been planning another motorcycle ‘epic journey’ for May. The upcoming RT will just be a nuisance.
As for me, my emotions seem to be leveling off and I am dealing with things better. I’ve gone three days without tears rolling down my face. This is due to encouraging words from friends, a little time has passed, and I have someone close to me that listens and does not dismiss my worst fears.
Ahhhhhh....it is what it is…let’s move forward.
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01-18-2011, 11:33 AM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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Originally Posted by bbbamI
As for me, my emotions seem to be leveling off and I am dealing with things better. I’ve gone three days without tears rolling down my face. This is due to encouraging words from friends, a little time has passed, and I have someone close to me that listens and does not dismiss my worst fears.
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And all is right with the world again... I am so gald.
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01-18-2011, 11:51 AM
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Thanks for the update - hang on in there, things seem to be progressing well.
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01-18-2011, 12:08 PM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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I've been looking for you online, kiddo.
DH and you will have a lot of challenges ahead. You sound like you have absorbed the "news", and are accepting of the process of the remedy and moving along mentally.
I am very impressed with your courage. HUG
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01-18-2011, 03:10 PM
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I'm glad everything seems to be going at least as good as can be expected, and that he's coping with it.
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Originally Posted by bbbamI
Earlier today DH had three gold seeds implanted in his prostate.
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Since it's going "so well", has he recalculated his net worth yet? Is this a lifetime investment or does he eventually have to "return" them?
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01-18-2011, 03:16 PM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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Thanks for the update bbbamI. My BIL is doing well after his surgery. IMHO, you and DH should find a fun distraction. Preferably involving high heeled boots and Jack Daniels 
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01-18-2011, 04:54 PM
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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Thank you for the update and take care.
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01-18-2011, 06:35 PM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso)
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Originally Posted by Nords
Since it's going "so well", has he recalculated his net worth yet? Is this a lifetime investment or does he eventually have to "return" them?
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He is thinking about going to an assayer next week.... 
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Originally Posted by Purron
Thanks for the update bbbamI. My BIL is doing well after his surgery.
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It's great to hear your BIL is doing well.
He'll drink JD, but says 'no' to high heeled boots....he just won't wear them...
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01-18-2011, 08:33 PM
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Thanks for the update. Glad to hear that he is planning a trip! You are in our thoughts and prayers! Be sure and do something for yourself too-maybe a massage.
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01-18-2011, 08:49 PM
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gone traveling
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Appreciate the update; you know a lot of folks here on E-R.org are concerned about you both. Hope things continue to go well.
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01-19-2011, 06:15 AM
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Thanks for the update. Hope all continues to go well.
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01-19-2011, 08:26 AM
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Oh man, sorry to hear alll this........
Bbam, try to keep your great sense of humor through all of this! I don't know you from Adam, but you come across as one of the funniest and most sincere people I've never actually met.
And this thread reminds me, I've got to schedule that first prostrate exam that I've been putting off......
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01-19-2011, 08:28 AM
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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
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And this thread reminds me, I've got to schedule that first prostrate exam that I've been putting off......
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Two thumbs up...
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01-19-2011, 08:57 AM
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And this thread reminds me, I've got to schedule that first prostrate exam that I've been putting off......
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Usually prostate exams are not done in the prost rate position, but if that is what your doctor does, go for it.
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01-19-2011, 02:06 PM
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ER'ed from the new car business Feb 2008. I'm 47, she's 45. Two boys ages 15 and 13. DW is SAHM. I've got a part-time used car lot I w*ork at 3 hours a day that keeps me in beer money.....
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01-19-2011, 02:24 PM
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Good news, have my fingers crossed for more good updates. He sounds like a terrific guy, and...well...we all think you are terrific, too!
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