Blue Collar Guy
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I agree. One of the fun things I do on Facebook is to go to "Find Friends" and delete everyone of them.
Im not on Facebook, but thats hysterical.
I agree. One of the fun things I do on Facebook is to go to "Find Friends" and delete everyone of them.
I'm curious - for those who value having social connections beyond spouse/SO/family, if you moved to a new area and most of your friendships are less than 10 years old, do you miss your old friends?
Imoldernu provided us with this quote from the USAToday article:
This article is absolute baloney IMO.
I am probably the happiest retiree on the forum. If not, then close.
I neither have, nor want, a social network at all. F and I spend several hours together every day. Otherwise, I am alone and enjoy the solitude. We are in our 60's, and from my point of view, our time together is the perfect amount of socializing in retirement presently.
For my later years, if he should go first, I suppose I would seek out others and perhaps live in a CCRC or other senior facility. But one step at a time. I'm only 69, and feel that I am nowhere near that old yet.
is having newer friends as satisfying to you as friendships with people you've been with for many years?
Imoldernu provided us with this quote from the USAToday article:
This article is absolute baloney IMO.
I am probably the happiest retiree on the forum. If not, then close.
I neither have, nor want, a social network at all. F and I spend several hours together every day. Otherwise, I am alone and enjoy the solitude. We are in our 60's, and from my point of view, our time together is the perfect amount of socializing in retirement presently.
For my later years, if he should go first, I suppose I would seek out others and perhaps live in a CCRC or other senior facility. But one step at a time. I'm only 69, and feel that I am nowhere near that old yet.
I think for most people their partner is their best friend but so often when the spouse dies you are left friendless ..
The late DW was 10 years younger than I... Predicting who will die when is hard to do.
I like FB. I have family all over the U.S. and in different countries. I like seeing their pictures and what their up to. The same goes for some of my former co-workers who have moved out of the area.
I think it is wise to count on one partner being alone. I am planning to go first but my Dad lived to 95. Many of my extended associates have been widowed and lots of them have recoupled. I always talk to DW about her next life!