ChiliPepr
Full time employment: Posting here.
I often wondered why such busy establishments got reviewed highly. If I have to wait 40minutes for my reservation, and another 40 before the food shows up, it's certainly not a 5star experience. Yet these trendy places have lines out the door waiting.
Waiting 40 minuted for a reservation anywhere would certainly drop the rating. As for waiting 40 minutes for "the food", that is a bit different, was it 40 minuted to the main course with apps in the middle? Higher end restaurants definitely go with the 2-3 hour meal, where the lower ones try to "churn and burn", get you order in and apps and food out in 10 minutes so you are out the door in an hour so they can seat more tables.
When I go to a top restaurant and need to be out at a certain time I make a point to tell the server that. Usually they will accommodate and have me out on time. Some higher end places will never drop the check until you ask for it.