Gumby,
....It does occur to me that my reply and perhaps yours too if I understand your meaning were pretty harsh to bimiwats FIRST post on the "Hi I am" forum. What he wrote was totally stupid but perhaps we should suffer some idiocy on first posts. This forum to me seems good because people are pretty good at pointing out the bs. The post on the same forum to Carol from the CA high desert were IMO a good example of this. Some people were warm and supportive to her but a few of us tried to get her to face the hard reality that she had made serious life decision errors and needed to seriously change her thinking. Your thoughts?
Jeff