What methods of savings have you guys used over the years? The two choices to choose from seem to be either the budget method or "forced scarcity" method.
I tend to do the latter, paying myself first. Being married, its been really hard getting my wife onboard with this concept. I'm paid every other week, and i've noticed my wife seems to be a little dismayed at the huge chuck of cash that disappears right off the start. It also gets a little *tight* that last week before we get paid again, and she probably blames me for that, though doesnt express it verbally.
I also tend to analyze my finances with quicken once a month (when my checkbook statement comes in). I called my wife in to take a look at our networth graph over the past 2 and 5 years this past time and said "see, look how good we're doing". She seemed to be less than impressed, and was probably thinking all the things we could have bought with that money. Basically, i'm getting treated like a miser by her, and not a wise financial savy person. * sigh *
Well, I guess i'm making some compromises in that I bought her a new car not long back (jetta diesel /grin), while i drive a 10 year old car.
I tend to do the latter, paying myself first. Being married, its been really hard getting my wife onboard with this concept. I'm paid every other week, and i've noticed my wife seems to be a little dismayed at the huge chuck of cash that disappears right off the start. It also gets a little *tight* that last week before we get paid again, and she probably blames me for that, though doesnt express it verbally.
I also tend to analyze my finances with quicken once a month (when my checkbook statement comes in). I called my wife in to take a look at our networth graph over the past 2 and 5 years this past time and said "see, look how good we're doing". She seemed to be less than impressed, and was probably thinking all the things we could have bought with that money. Basically, i'm getting treated like a miser by her, and not a wise financial savy person. * sigh *
Well, I guess i'm making some compromises in that I bought her a new car not long back (jetta diesel /grin), while i drive a 10 year old car.