The other night I made a huge mistake. There is an older golf course neighborhood by my parents house that I have always loved. We saw a cute house for sale, and found that it was $200K less than we had expected.
Well now my poor wife has her heart set on buying this house. I am 7 years from FIRE. I NEED to finish paying off my house! I told my wife it would take me 15 years to pay it off, and I want to quit work before then. She started crying.
We live way out in the country in a house I build by hand. My wife says she is tired of commuting, which I can understand. I am also tired of commuting. So I told my wife I would be willing to sell our house even though I *LOVE* my house, but I wouldn't consider anything that I couldn't pay off in 7 years.
I am a little sad. I know our house is small, and requires us to drive a lot. But I have a beautiful shop, with a nice office for working at home. It is so peaceful at night.
She is telling me that if we move I could spend more time with our daughter. I am saying if I retire I can spend more time with our daughter.
I don't know if I am complaining or asking for advice. I simply want a cheap house that is paid for. And to me cheap is country living.
Rodger
Well now my poor wife has her heart set on buying this house. I am 7 years from FIRE. I NEED to finish paying off my house! I told my wife it would take me 15 years to pay it off, and I want to quit work before then. She started crying.
We live way out in the country in a house I build by hand. My wife says she is tired of commuting, which I can understand. I am also tired of commuting. So I told my wife I would be willing to sell our house even though I *LOVE* my house, but I wouldn't consider anything that I couldn't pay off in 7 years.
I am a little sad. I know our house is small, and requires us to drive a lot. But I have a beautiful shop, with a nice office for working at home. It is so peaceful at night.
She is telling me that if we move I could spend more time with our daughter. I am saying if I retire I can spend more time with our daughter.
I don't know if I am complaining or asking for advice. I simply want a cheap house that is paid for. And to me cheap is country living.
Rodger