That's what someone said to me the other day. "You know it won't happen..."
Let me recap the conversation. Some folks were standing around a classroom, waiting for some training to start. The discussion turned to savings and retirement options. I mentioned that I had recently done up a spreadsheet for how much money I'd have saved by retirement if I kept my current standard of living (ie lived off of the paygrade I'm at now) but continued to receive promotions on a fairly conservative schedule. If I were to do that, I said, I would have $XXX,XXX in the bank by the time I could retire.
"Yeah," says the guy I'm talking to, "of course, you know it won't happen that way."
"Well, nothing's exact," I say, "but it's still a guideline."
"No, no," he says. "It's just not possible. You'll be able to save a percentage of your income, but the amount you spend will go up with your paycheck. It's just not possible to keep the same expenses even though you earn more. You'll see the money coming in, and you'll spend it. That's just human nature."
Huh? The conversation came to a dead halt right there. I was floored. I couldn't even figure out what to tell the guy, so I just went back to my desk and waited for the training to start.
What in the world? It's "human nature" to spend every penny you have, just because you have it? How does he figure? Is this the average philosophy of personal finance?
I admit, I haven't been perfect with my spending lately, but I haven't been trying to stick to a budget recently, either. I used to be much, much more strict about it. I think I've been in something like shock the last couple years just having a job that I'm not afraid will disappear by the end of the week, so it has taken me a while to come down off the high and start planning for the future, but to just flatly state that I will never be able to maintain the same standard of living in the face of a rising income in order to plan for my retirement? I don't know what to make of that. Has anyone else had any experience with this supposedly fundamental part of "human nature"?
Josh
Let me recap the conversation. Some folks were standing around a classroom, waiting for some training to start. The discussion turned to savings and retirement options. I mentioned that I had recently done up a spreadsheet for how much money I'd have saved by retirement if I kept my current standard of living (ie lived off of the paygrade I'm at now) but continued to receive promotions on a fairly conservative schedule. If I were to do that, I said, I would have $XXX,XXX in the bank by the time I could retire.
"Yeah," says the guy I'm talking to, "of course, you know it won't happen that way."
"Well, nothing's exact," I say, "but it's still a guideline."
"No, no," he says. "It's just not possible. You'll be able to save a percentage of your income, but the amount you spend will go up with your paycheck. It's just not possible to keep the same expenses even though you earn more. You'll see the money coming in, and you'll spend it. That's just human nature."
Huh? The conversation came to a dead halt right there. I was floored. I couldn't even figure out what to tell the guy, so I just went back to my desk and waited for the training to start.
What in the world? It's "human nature" to spend every penny you have, just because you have it? How does he figure? Is this the average philosophy of personal finance?
I admit, I haven't been perfect with my spending lately, but I haven't been trying to stick to a budget recently, either. I used to be much, much more strict about it. I think I've been in something like shock the last couple years just having a job that I'm not afraid will disappear by the end of the week, so it has taken me a while to come down off the high and start planning for the future, but to just flatly state that I will never be able to maintain the same standard of living in the face of a rising income in order to plan for my retirement? I don't know what to make of that. Has anyone else had any experience with this supposedly fundamental part of "human nature"?
Josh