Currently in the USN. Finishing up my 20 years at age 38. Have a son that will be ten. All other kids have left the house. Wife not expected to last with all her medical problems. Have 37 thousand in debt, taking care of in the next two years. Saved three thousand so far and plan to invest 25 thousand with expected bonus. Like to move to TN and build a house for me and my son. Not trying to live like a king but would like to not be worried about getting a job.