Amethyst
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My parents gave me an unpopular first name. As a youngster, I took so much cr@p about it that I stopped using it, and throughout my teen and adult life have always used my middle name.
On marrying, I adopted my husband's surname. Social Security allowed me to change my name with them to: given middle name, maiden surname, husband's surname. These 3 names (actually first, middle initial and last name) are how I am registered everywhere: work payroll; banks, credit cards, financial institutions; graduate school; memberships; etc.
The only exceptions are the Motor Vehicle Administration and the Department of State. I am required to have all FOUR names (given 1st name, given middle name, and the 2 surnames) on my driver's license and passport. Let's call that name A B C D, and the name I use everywhere else is B C D.
When I renewed my driver's license this year (it's a 5-year renewal period), I was told, for the first time, that because my Social Security number doesn't match A B C D, I can only have a provisional driver's license. The MVA wants me to change my name with Social Security from B C D to A B C D. I fear this will cause uncountable foul-ups with financial accounts and even work payroll, since they use my SSN as identifier.
My only other course appears to be to legally get rid of my first name and then change my name with the MVA and State, so my DL and passport read B C D.
Any lurking snags with this approach? Anyone got any better (practical) ideas?
Thanks,
Amethyst
On marrying, I adopted my husband's surname. Social Security allowed me to change my name with them to: given middle name, maiden surname, husband's surname. These 3 names (actually first, middle initial and last name) are how I am registered everywhere: work payroll; banks, credit cards, financial institutions; graduate school; memberships; etc.
The only exceptions are the Motor Vehicle Administration and the Department of State. I am required to have all FOUR names (given 1st name, given middle name, and the 2 surnames) on my driver's license and passport. Let's call that name A B C D, and the name I use everywhere else is B C D.
When I renewed my driver's license this year (it's a 5-year renewal period), I was told, for the first time, that because my Social Security number doesn't match A B C D, I can only have a provisional driver's license. The MVA wants me to change my name with Social Security from B C D to A B C D. I fear this will cause uncountable foul-ups with financial accounts and even work payroll, since they use my SSN as identifier.
My only other course appears to be to legally get rid of my first name and then change my name with the MVA and State, so my DL and passport read B C D.
Any lurking snags with this approach? Anyone got any better (practical) ideas?
Thanks,
Amethyst