Cheesehead
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We have vacationed in the Pacific Northwest, usually when it has been sunny, and my wife would really like to retire there, specifically Seattle, possibly Portland, because she is very, very, VERY involved in weaving, knitting and spinning. I love the outdoors and can use a change of scenery.
However, we don't know a soul there. We are not religious so we can't count on joining a congregation for instant friends. We are somewhat quiet, non-partying types but do like to do things, entertain, etc. My hobbies are kind of solitary such as kayaking, archery, RC planes, etc. Although she will be 57 & I 62 when we make the move I worry about what it would be like to grow elderly away from our home base of a dwindling extended family in the Midwest. Even here we find it difficult to break into existing social groups of friends who have been together for decades and have a shared history. We have many friendly neighbors and lots of acquaintances but in your 50's & 60's it seems harder to make real friends. I think if we move to more of a resort town, like Bend, Or etc. where people are from somewhere else, it's easier to meet people.
But we want to get out of the Midwest for our next chapter of life.
Any thoughts of people in similar situations have experienced will be appreciated.
Thanks!
However, we don't know a soul there. We are not religious so we can't count on joining a congregation for instant friends. We are somewhat quiet, non-partying types but do like to do things, entertain, etc. My hobbies are kind of solitary such as kayaking, archery, RC planes, etc. Although she will be 57 & I 62 when we make the move I worry about what it would be like to grow elderly away from our home base of a dwindling extended family in the Midwest. Even here we find it difficult to break into existing social groups of friends who have been together for decades and have a shared history. We have many friendly neighbors and lots of acquaintances but in your 50's & 60's it seems harder to make real friends. I think if we move to more of a resort town, like Bend, Or etc. where people are from somewhere else, it's easier to meet people.
But we want to get out of the Midwest for our next chapter of life.
Any thoughts of people in similar situations have experienced will be appreciated.
Thanks!