http://bigstory.ap.org/article/poll-more-stressful-care-spouse-mom
The rest of the article covers the realities of caregiving, and some statistics about the likelyhood of requiring care as we age...
While most of our discussions here on ER have had to do with the financial planning for continuing care, the truth is that most of the care comes not from nursing homes or paid home caregivers, but from the immediate family, especially the spouse.
Look for the spread between expectations and reality. Money isn't always the solution.
You promise "in sickness and in health," but a new poll shows becoming a caregiver to a frail spouse causes more stress than having to care for mom, dad or even the in-laws.
Americans 40 and older say they count on their families to care for them as they age, with good reason: Half of them already have been caregivers to relatives or friends, the poll found.
But neither the graying population nor the loved ones who expect to help them are doing much planning for long-term care. In fact, people are far more likely to disclose their funeral plans to friends and family than reveal their preferences for assistance with day-to-day living as they get older,
The rest of the article covers the realities of caregiving, and some statistics about the likelyhood of requiring care as we age...
While most of our discussions here on ER have had to do with the financial planning for continuing care, the truth is that most of the care comes not from nursing homes or paid home caregivers, but from the immediate family, especially the spouse.
Look for the spread between expectations and reality. Money isn't always the solution.