There have been dozens, maybe hundreds of posts that talk about the subject.
Since I expect to be in the situation in the near future, would appreciate thoughts... even detailed suggestions to be considered when making plans for a downsize.
This recent NYT article covers the problem of decluttering on a broad basis, but there's a lot more to it than sorting , tossing and donating.
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/08/23/your-money/moving-to-a-smaller-home-and-decluttering-a-lifetime-of-belongings.html?action=click&contentCollection=U.S.&module=MostEmailed&version=Full®ion=Marginalia&src=me&pgtype=article
Dumping this on the kids, is not my first choice, but the idea of spending 6 months of trips back and forth to Goodwill or holding yard sales, is a nonstarter. On the other hand, having a Waste Management super bucket dropped in front of the house, is traumatic, as is watching 70+ years of memories and treasure going to the local landfill.
One of the things that I don't see being discussed on ER, is the value of personal possessions. Cars, yes, Houses, yes... but what about furniture, jewelry, collections, electronics, expensive decor, paintings etc, etc.
My "across the street neighbor" passed away, and the niece hired an auctioneer... for a sidewalk auction. The lady was very wealthy, and had collectibles and high value furniture and antiques... bringing a total of $45K...
That's not me.
While my "belongings" have little value, individually... in total, for our Florida Mobile home, our campground Park Model and our CCRC home... there are many individual items... to be disposed of... including thousands of dollars of tools and quite naturally... kitchen, electronics, appliances and many rooms of furniture.
I get suggestions from others... sell "it" on EBay or Craig's list , Yard sales, Habitat, classified etc, etc... Truthfully, the dollars involved aren't enough to offset the hours, days, weeks and probably months... and the angst that it will cause.
Ideally, there would be some national company that would have an ethical base... to have a structure to hire, train and market an operation to profit from others in a similar situation. A way to estimate cost and sale value and a means of disposal that would be fair to both company and customer.
"Got Junk?" and "Aunt Nelly's Cleanup" type companies are ok, but how do I get rid of the classic bikes, the aging golf cart, the stamp and coin collection, the chain saw, and welder, not to mention the books, records, paintings, and expensive glassware. Taken together this "stuff" becomes more of a liability than an asset. 60 years of collecting isn't worth the time out of our rapidly shortening lifespan.
And so, putting a dollar value on "belongings"... not important. A turnkey operation (short of death ) would be nice, but in lieu of that, any thoughts?
Since I expect to be in the situation in the near future, would appreciate thoughts... even detailed suggestions to be considered when making plans for a downsize.
This recent NYT article covers the problem of decluttering on a broad basis, but there's a lot more to it than sorting , tossing and donating.
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/08/23/your-money/moving-to-a-smaller-home-and-decluttering-a-lifetime-of-belongings.html?action=click&contentCollection=U.S.&module=MostEmailed&version=Full®ion=Marginalia&src=me&pgtype=article
Dumping this on the kids, is not my first choice, but the idea of spending 6 months of trips back and forth to Goodwill or holding yard sales, is a nonstarter. On the other hand, having a Waste Management super bucket dropped in front of the house, is traumatic, as is watching 70+ years of memories and treasure going to the local landfill.
One of the things that I don't see being discussed on ER, is the value of personal possessions. Cars, yes, Houses, yes... but what about furniture, jewelry, collections, electronics, expensive decor, paintings etc, etc.
My "across the street neighbor" passed away, and the niece hired an auctioneer... for a sidewalk auction. The lady was very wealthy, and had collectibles and high value furniture and antiques... bringing a total of $45K...
That's not me.
While my "belongings" have little value, individually... in total, for our Florida Mobile home, our campground Park Model and our CCRC home... there are many individual items... to be disposed of... including thousands of dollars of tools and quite naturally... kitchen, electronics, appliances and many rooms of furniture.
I get suggestions from others... sell "it" on EBay or Craig's list , Yard sales, Habitat, classified etc, etc... Truthfully, the dollars involved aren't enough to offset the hours, days, weeks and probably months... and the angst that it will cause.
Ideally, there would be some national company that would have an ethical base... to have a structure to hire, train and market an operation to profit from others in a similar situation. A way to estimate cost and sale value and a means of disposal that would be fair to both company and customer.
"Got Junk?" and "Aunt Nelly's Cleanup" type companies are ok, but how do I get rid of the classic bikes, the aging golf cart, the stamp and coin collection, the chain saw, and welder, not to mention the books, records, paintings, and expensive glassware. Taken together this "stuff" becomes more of a liability than an asset. 60 years of collecting isn't worth the time out of our rapidly shortening lifespan.
And so, putting a dollar value on "belongings"... not important. A turnkey operation (short of death ) would be nice, but in lieu of that, any thoughts?
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