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I live on my own and my GF lives in another state. Therefore in my case, I only consider individual assets.
I would think that it's more important that you are not married in order to separate your finances - not where you reside.I live on my own and my GF lives in another state. Therefore in my case, I only consider individual assets.
I would think that it's more important that you are not married in order to separate your finances - not where you reside.
I always enjoy it when married people say "We calculate our net worths separately." Unless you are an unusual couple, maybe with a big non-comingled inheritance to one of you, this is a fantasy.
See how family court deals with your assertion that "our net worths are separate". If you are married, or in many cases if you have been married, you cannot be free from claims, so why delude yourselves?
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I listen to Dave Ramsey most days. He regularly lambastes the following:
1. People living together who keep combined finances.
2. Married couples who keep separate finances.
3. Pre-nuptial agreements. He says this is planning for failure.
I live in an "ours and hers" relationship.
+1. In some states, including mine, cohabitation is also a danger zone. No matter how separate both parties think their finances are, under some circumstances one can't be sure.Legal ownership and management on paper seem to be getting more and more confused due to the laws governing 2 people living together unmarried and legally married, still living together or not. And then we can of course get tangled up by some states' community property laws.
The legal community has taken what used to be pretty crystal clear about separate vs joint marital property, when 2 people are married or not, and of course the Spouse Equity Act of 1984 at the federal level gets intertwined with state property ownership laws.
I think I'll stay single. Mr B and I could exchange vows without applying for the marriage license.
Tell me about it...when ex-dh2b moved in with me at my invitation back in 2005, I had him sign a Cost Share Agreement after I read the NOLO legal book about cohabitiating. I covered myself to the max.+1. In some states, including mine, cohabitation is also a danger zone. No matter how separate both parties think their finances are, under some circumstances one can't be sure.
Family lawyers have have an amazing ability to shoot holes even in fairly well thought out plans.
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I think I'll stay single. Mr B and I could exchange vows without applying for the marriage license.
Moemg said:You can always have a commitment ceremony !
You know, I think that is exactly what we will do. I like that idea.You can always have a commitment ceremony !
You are able to communicate them to us quite well also. Nothing like tales of survivors.I had enough problems with my late husband's family, even though his Will was crystal clear.
Call me a cynic, but life's tougher lessons have a habit of sticking with me.
A man like that needs to get up VERY early in the morning to get anything past Miss Freebird.You are able to communicate them to us quite well also. Nothing like tales of survivors.
How about the gall of former-DH2B?
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