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My Dad retired at 55 because he was convinced he wouldn't live past 60 based on his family history and he wanted to travel and enjoy life for a few years. He made it to 79 and said that he never would have lived that long if he hadn't retired when he did - stress would have killed him. My Mom is 80 and was very surprised about my ER decision - but then very supportive once I explained enough about our finances that she wouldn't worry. Biggest change in our relationship is that our weekly phone calls used to be my therapy session to talk about the idiots at w*rk (her favorite advice was "ExLax in their coffee!"). Now we actually talk about things we care about!