If you hung around the forum prior to 2008 you would have seen many threads regarding "cashing out" on the house and using the eqiity to fund a big chunk of retirement. That plan did not work out too well and reconfirmed my reluctance to consider the value of our house in any retirement planning.
Hope you won't feel I'm being argumentative, and am sure you, and most of the members here know whereof you speak, but I'm still lost on this.
The CCRC that I'll be funding with the proceeds from the sale of my house (plus my SS)... is an all inclusive single one payment per month $2500 for both of us, for a 2BR 2BA apartment including meals, utilities, transportation, TV, internet, and community amenities... Exercise room, library etc, etc... Only extra expense is the phone bill.
It's a known, finite expense... except for inflation. Basically, the plan is one single dollar amount, funded by a known income source.
The fallback from this is the rest of the CCRC...from the apartments, a smooth transition into assisted living, nursing home or Alzheier Unit if and when necessary.
Lest anyone feel that we could get caught... that's not likely at this point. We do have enough assets and security for most reasonable health and entertainment costs for well beyond the 10 year plan.. Five years in the nursing home if necessary, and after our nursing home insurance runs out, it would be medicaid.
Keeping this phase 2 plan as a known single factor does give us peace of mind, moreso than a fuzzy picture of what might or might not happen.
I suppose it's a matter of semantics, but after a few years of "maybe we'll move to Florida permanently"... or "we'll just stay where we are and wait to see what happens" or "move to be near the kids"... we came to the decision as described above. It has had a calming effect on our lives, and makes sense to our sons. (They won't have to deal with closing everything down).
The final good part is that we can look at our net worth assets as a "whole", and not worrying about whether we'll be looking for an apartment, another house, or the variable expenses of repair and maintenance if we were to stay in our current villa (house) in the CCRC. It's a plan.