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- Oct 5, 2016
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^^ Fortunately many/most parents do teach their kids some manners and/or quickly intervene when their kids get out of line. Even last night with the screaming kids table, there were 3-4 other tables with young kids behaving MUCH better. Occasionally I have thanked parents after a restaurant meal where their kids were exceptionally well behaved, the last one appreciated our acknowledgment.
Years ago in Newport RI we had two kids running completely wild in a nice waterfront restaurant at the table next to us. I gave the parents some dirty looks, and the wife said “you don’t have kids do you,” and they both let their kids carry on including debris everywhere. They finished before us and after dinner the 6ish son and Dad were walking on the deck outside and they both came to the window right outside our table. The 6ish son flipped us the bird, and the Dad just chuckled.
There are just some thoughtless, selfish people who have no respect for others, and never will. I don’t waste my time with them - “never argue with a fool, onlookers might not be able to tell the difference.”
A number of years ago, at least 30 years, when DS was about 4 (Fearsome Four:semi controllable) DW, DS, and I walked into a new restaurant expecting it to be a "family place" based on friends and cow*rkers suggestions only to find out as we were seated it was decidedly upscale. We had a moment of trepidation thinking about DS's NORMALLY good behaviour, but decided to risk it. He was the perfect little gentleman. He was complemented by a "much older" lady in the next table for his good behaviour as she and her husband were leaving after their meal. That sure made us proud! Since then he always behaved as a good little gentleman in restaurants even when other kids in our party (friends kids, cousins) ran wild.
I have a problem with undisciplined kids in restaurants as well. I have tried to take that ladies approach, and give compliments to those that behave, sometime within earshot of those that don't.