old woman
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I have had many hard times in my 59 years starting June 13, 1955 when I was 7. My dad was injured at work, we were living very poor then but he couldn't work for 4 months. My brothers were 6-8 and mom took us to get work. The 4 of us picked green beans from sun up to sun down to earn money. I earned about 50 cents a day maybe less. When we went back to school the teacher asked us to bring dimes or pennies for march of dimes and I said I wasn't going to ask we couldn't afford it.
I left home at 18 with $50 and a suitcase, no job lined up or anything got a ride to the city and someone I knew said I could stay with them until I found a place. I was pretty poor but not that bad.
I got down to my last 20 cents once in the early 70s but had a car to sleep in and got a job right away that paid daily so not so bad.
1983 has to have been the very lowest point in my financial life. Interest was 14.5% my mortgage was 930 per month with no equity. My ex was an alcoholic that took up drinking and was violent and didn't work. I would work all day then go to Alanon meetings then home where he played loud music all night so I couldn't sleep. I had to really pinch pennies to get money to pay the bills on my little paychecks and sell things for food money. Dec 27, 1983 my life took a turn for the better, I left him the house, his truck and started over with my old car that only had 5 payments left. My parents let me stay with them and I had an uncashed Christmas bonus and 3 days to payday. I was working a CPA firm so all the overtime I wanted so worked 435 hours by the end of April and got my first IRA before April 15.
I lost money in the 2001 crash and lost a great job in 2000, I will never earn that much again but have a decent job, no husband and I can pay all my bills.
This little downturn the last couple of weeks cost me 26K but I still have over 400K left.
Nothing could be as bad as the fall of 1983.
I left home at 18 with $50 and a suitcase, no job lined up or anything got a ride to the city and someone I knew said I could stay with them until I found a place. I was pretty poor but not that bad.
I got down to my last 20 cents once in the early 70s but had a car to sleep in and got a job right away that paid daily so not so bad.
1983 has to have been the very lowest point in my financial life. Interest was 14.5% my mortgage was 930 per month with no equity. My ex was an alcoholic that took up drinking and was violent and didn't work. I would work all day then go to Alanon meetings then home where he played loud music all night so I couldn't sleep. I had to really pinch pennies to get money to pay the bills on my little paychecks and sell things for food money. Dec 27, 1983 my life took a turn for the better, I left him the house, his truck and started over with my old car that only had 5 payments left. My parents let me stay with them and I had an uncashed Christmas bonus and 3 days to payday. I was working a CPA firm so all the overtime I wanted so worked 435 hours by the end of April and got my first IRA before April 15.
I lost money in the 2001 crash and lost a great job in 2000, I will never earn that much again but have a decent job, no husband and I can pay all my bills.
This little downturn the last couple of weeks cost me 26K but I still have over 400K left.
Nothing could be as bad as the fall of 1983.