Just curious about this dilema, I have two children, one is very successful, the other has been trouble all his adult life. If I leave money to him there will be lawyers standing in line to get paid. I have stopped giving him money and he is very distant to my wife and I now. He thinks of no one but himself, is lazy, and druggy. He now mouches off other relatives and took every dime he could mouch off his grand parents until they passed on. Now mouches off my rich brother and lives with him. Brother bought him two new vehicles this year and many expensive items, watches his child, so he can go out and drink. My brother registered the vehicles in his name, because son cannot legally get drivers license, and cannot get insurance. (d.u.i. multiple times) Got girlfriend pregnant and instead of paying child support has my brother watch the child while he goes out to work and play. I gave him a business because he was unable to support himself or find a job and was to lazy to go to college, which I offered to pay for. Now he has ran the business in the ground because he's to lazy to work hard and doesn't need the money because he lives at my brothers for free. He has stolen from me and owes me a large sum of money which he will never pay back. He wouldn't help anyone ever.
On the other hand my daughter is an angle, with a good job, nice children, a nice husband, big house, and would do anything for us. Has never asked for money and owes no money. They pay cash for everything. Children in private schools etc.
I am leary of leaving my son much of anything in my will, what's your thoughts on this?
On the other hand my daughter is an angle, with a good job, nice children, a nice husband, big house, and would do anything for us. Has never asked for money and owes no money. They pay cash for everything. Children in private schools etc.
I am leary of leaving my son much of anything in my will, what's your thoughts on this?